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The "no arousal" rule

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Health is key, May 4, 2017.

  1. Health is key

    Health is key Fapstronaut

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    Luckily for me I've already been through two of the most brutal of flatline so I don't think a major one will come again. Would love for someone to do academic research on flatlines because it really is a phenomenon. It is absolutely bazaar. It is like your whole brain shuts down temporarily and I swear my penis went from about 3 inches flaccid to 1cm lol. I had to have Hup surgery in that time and I reckon the whole surgery table would have laughed their head off at the size of my penis haha
     
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  2. Enemjay

    Enemjay Fapstronaut

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    I want that. I've always ruined my chances cause I get too excited initially. I want to just be natural during our first meeting instead of creeping her out.

    Were you pretty strict about your arousal restriction during reboot?
     
  3. Runtilmylegsdropoff

    Runtilmylegsdropoff Fapstronaut

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    No aroosal ? Now you're really asking for too much. There's just lots of things in life that are sensual.
     
  4. ps129

    ps129 Fapstronaut

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    fair enough, each of us has a different goal for this challenge

    the more i push myself, the more benefits im feeling. developing control over my sexual nature is making me feel more powerful than ive ever felt before

    yeah man, very strict. its tough at first because we have no control, but its like a muscle, gets stronger over time.

    women dont make it easy either.... the more you control your automatic sexual response the more you see women for who they are, their personality etc. it drives women crazy when you dont respond to their beauty like the 100 guys they meet everyday. they start chasinghard because they need to satisfy their ego that they 'got you' like they are used to getting other guys

    tough to stay arousal-free when they start laying it on...
     
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  5. slb

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    I agree with this. I've been pretty much implementing this - I didn't cut myself off when I felt aroused with my SO but apart from that, totally.

    One other technique I use is if I feel any thoughts which could lead in that direction then, once I've told myself NO, I actively think about something else which can take my full concentration. In my case some technical problem usually but you could try to remember a song lyric, sports, whatever is your interest I guess. The other option would be to use a meditation technique - I'm a total beginner there but I tried one of the very basic techniques (basically just focusing totally on my breathing) and that worked too
     
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