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Just Not True

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by Apothecarist, May 7, 2017.

  1. HippyMan

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    Pray for me please, and inshaAllah I will remember to pray for you.
     
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  2. HippyMan

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    ... if you're into that (sorry, I presumed). If not- just know Imma send good vibes your way mk?
     
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  3. Mr.No

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    Salam
    I will pray for you. If thats ok.
     
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  4. Resolved Oregonian

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    And have you since identified the flaw in that strategy?
     
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  5. Apothecarist

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    yes i did .. i still semi-objectify women , i still daydream , i still have urges from time to time
     
  6. Apothecarist

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    sure i will Inshaa Allah
     
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  7. Resolved Oregonian

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  8. Apothecarist

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    I do not have a clear plan except following the same things that helped me , i wait for summer to have clear mind and plan
     
  9. Resolved Oregonian

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    Ok. It sounds like there were some things that helped you. What were they? And what did not help that contributed to the relapse? Also is there a reason why you are choosing not to use a specific plan for abstinence? One of my favorite quotes ever comes from Tony Robbins; "Winners anticipate, losers react."
     
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  10. Apothecarist

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    Well .. it was a pure chance from god (Allah -SWT-)
    meditation , cold showers , controlling breath exercises , GYM , some will power , controlling of diet , enough sleep , fasting , reading , limiting time on internet , software protection , adult content control , journalism , no arousal method , controlling of thoughts, also praying 5 time a day , reading Quran.

    every time i relapsed it was a result of giving in to thoughts and attempting to fight arousal

    i have no specific plan as addiction ( any type) can not be fought with one strategy , also i am really busy and stressed at college so my mind is not clear and my mood is like roller coaster
     
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  11. Resolved Oregonian

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    Thanks for sharing man, and I understand the challenges in life and with business. I'd like to postulate a concept to you, which is this; "It is highly unlikely that someone can gain liberty and its associated successes without a specific plan." I believe anybody in the porn community who has had long term abstinence from porn will attest to this.
     
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  12. Apothecarist

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    Thank you very much :)
     
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