BROCODE "How to know how many guys she has slept with" ?

Its very hard to tell my friend! specially manipulative women who sleep alot practice alot of kegels (vaginal clenching) and they keep their vagina very tight.
I thought my 1st girlfriend was a virgin because she was so tight but later I got to know she literally slept with our entire football team , so women can hide it with kegels.
You should not ask just keep observing. If you can rail her on 1st date after 3 drinks, its quite likely that you're not the first one to do that with her.
The easily she gives it to you the easy she is . hence lower value of her.

 

I would like to put out these questions - Would a girl like to marry or be with a man who has slept with other girls before her? Wouldn't a girl prefer a man with more discretion ? Would a girl be ok to be with a guy whose penis and hands are felt by many other girls out there before her ?

Any self-respecting girl wouldn't want to be with a man who has been a male whore in the past or slept around a lot. No decent girl would be impressed to know the fact that you have "CRUSHED" XYZ number of boxes before her. As a matter of fact, guys sleep around more than girls do. Why not ask these questions to yourself to know yourself before asking a girl and bothering yourself about her past sex life.

 

You are right, if the dude is a virgin , he will expect the girl to be virgin .
If a dude is player , he will expect to be the girl to be experienced . However many players want to have fun with adventurous girls but will eventually want to get married to a nice woman who never dated any guy.

I feel really sorry for this FEMINISM bullshit, where women are encouraged to have sex alot thinking if that will make men and women equal, however this always ends up women getting dumped or cheated by a player.

 

Does she have any children with her? Generally this is a good sign she has been having sex. From the age of the child you can infer when. Are there two children of identical age referring to her as mom? If not your calculation is less complicated. Figure your floor for instances of sexual intercourse equals your number of children referring to her as "mom" or screaming inarticulately about something in a grocery store. When did she last engage in sexual intercourse...take the age of the youngest child plus nine months to account for gestation. Now recall this is your minimum number of instances of sexual intercourse although to be fair this will not shed much light on the variety of sexual partners. Beyond this, physical signs can be misleading. You might need to talk to her.

 

Actually 30 + is quite a less number, I have seen women having 70-80 guys in 3 months , techincally that is about a new guy every night.
You can't tell if she has been crushed earlier, the best is to be good observer of her actions, Or if you can find out about her past,
What I have seen is that women whose past is slutty , they dont have social media profiles, They are nowehere to be found on google.


We males put women in 2 different categories.

1 st category - Just bang her (usually in clubs, discos, pubs, bars etc, even if the girl is a nice girl we still do not care because we know that good girls don't come such places if they want to get banged)

2nd category - The emirates , the place we see a woman and think she can be the mother of my children. (usually in schools, colleges etc)

If a woman leads with sex or sexy , we go right over to that BOOM-CHIKA-BOOM-BOOM world.
For a sane woman - The guy's PAST doesnt matter. Women dont think about past too much but they do care about what you do once you begin dating her.

But for a guy, if he finds out that the chic has slept with plenty of men, he may still hook up with her but will not make her wife or girlfriend. Its pretty simple.

Its a scientific study that the more number of partners a female has, the ability of her being loyal to 1 person reduces by 7 % every time she changes the partner.
These type of women end up making their life, or their partners life a living hell, they become narcissistic or develop a bipolar personality disorder.

A woman's past doesnt matter, if she is happy being SINGLE and doesnt have any ex's in the background trying to come back into the picture.
A woman who is confident being single and doesn't need a man to define her, that is the women you should go for, No matter what her past is.

 

If she wants to sleep with you on the second date, run a mile.

Most women are promiscuous these days... social media seems to promote it. But there are still exceptions. The exceptional ones are easiest to find if you yourself are exceptional.

 

If a girl has slept with a decent number of guys because she enjoys sex, it's only a problem if she has herpes or if she'll continue to do so while dating you. If she's slept with a lot of guys because she is insecure and has low self esteem, THAT IS A PROBLEM. In my experience, the latter is usually the one with more notches. That isn't to say I haven't been with girls who've slept with a lot of guys because she enjoys sex. I have, and they're typically pretty good at what they enjoy.

Either way, if a girl is insecure and has low self esteem -- will I bang her? Yes. Will I make her my girl? No. At the end of the day, if I'm dating a girl who has been around the block, it probably won't bother me because I've already verified she isn't an insecure psycho.

 

Like attracts like. If a guy wants an exceptional woman, he himself will need to be exceptional. Women, at least exceptional ones, aren't stupid.

 

Yes, it is a disaster.

 

Maybe the way she walks, the distance between two legs when she's walking, just a guess

 

Feminism doesnt say have sex and act like a slut.
Feminism mean women also like sex and if we have sex with you on 1st date that doesnt mean we dont deserve to be loved or throws away like a piece of paper. We like sex as much as you do and if we try to explore our sexuality why should it bother anyone?

If a woman has sex with you on 1st or 2nd date, that means she is not an exceptional woman?

 

I dont think past matters that much, maybe she wanted to have some fun in her college days.
But when she met you , she saw a future with you and she dumped all those guys for you.

My wife had a past , infact we are mature enough to talk about it, she said she wanted to just enjoy and see what happens in her graduation years.
However, when she met me, We started dating her and we are together ever since.
I dont know why so much emphasis is given on past? And why past matters so much to men?
I think most women don't have a problem with your past unless she is a narcissistic .

 

I am not interested in having sex with a woman on the first date. It takes a process of, to use an old-fashioned word, courtship to get to know a woman. The desire for sex is the desire for a person. Anything less just devalues our humanity, where we treat each other as objects and not subjects.

If a woman wanted sex with me on the first date, I would not find this woman attractive at all. She would lack the kind of qualities that today makes a woman exceptional [an exception to the rule].

 

Clearly a bunch of dudes here trying to justify the fact that they've ended up with left over scraps. What's up with your self respect, man? How do your egos take it? I cannot even touch a woman who has had 50 guys in past 3 months.

 

When you treat sex like it's a big deal, it becomes very clear that you're inexperienced. I certainly USED to care about it. I knew every girl's name and how we met. Each one and each time mattered. And then I grew up. I'm not saying that sex doesn't matter--it certainly does. But you guys seem to misunderstand what's actually important. Sex is physical. Sleeping with a gorgeous girl who knows what she's doing is an amazing experience, but the next morning we part ways and I feel no more (or less) happy than I did before. What's going to really make you smile day in and day out is a good girl that sticks around...

I've slept around a lot. Does that make me easy to get? Physically, sure. If a girl's attractive, she has a great shot of sleeping with me. But for a girl to actually get to the point where I want to spend more time with her, start dating, etc--THAT takes a lot. In that respect, I am NOT easy. I am extremely, extremely picky. I look at it the same way with women: sure, I'd PREFER a more "pure" girl with a heart of gold, but I understand if a girl has had her fun. What's more alarming to me is someone that is emotionally unstable, or falls too quickly for guys. I want a girl that's similar to me in an emotional capacity: difficult to win over. It's THERE that I want to be one of very few.

 

Yes, I don't think women should be judged for that.... if it's in the past, and she had changed. People can change. It's really about whether or not they've been able to free themselves from that past.

 

Women who sleep around alot, and then they observe a cute rich guy to settle down with. Now, they become exclusive with the dude, she immediately gets rid of all the guys she has hooked up prior to meeting this rich guy.
And because she is hot and cute, 99 % of guys fall for her.
do you think the cute rich dude is stupid that he will make this type of a woman his gf or wife?
if he is stupid and fall for her manipulation then sure he will, but most rich guys arent stupid, infact most rich guys are ruthless,
and they know which women to pump and dump and with which women to go out on dates and have relationships

 

A woman of quality.

It really is quite tragic how much sex has been cheapened today.

 

These are your beliefs and your values, Many women have values that if I like a guy and the guy likes me and We both are physcially attracted to each other thats why we are on a date.
Then why to wait ?
People have different thinking, just because she is more confident and doesn't want to wait to kiss or get physical you will reject her as a girlfriend or wife material? If guys can kiss or get physical on 1st date then why women should stop?