BROCODE "How to know how many guys she has slept with" ?

Guys just remember -
If a key fits many locks, then it's a fucking good key. If a lock fits many keys, then it's a terrible fucking lock.

 

Well, it comes down to what your beliefs and values are. Do you just want a moment of gratification [mutual masturbation essentially] or do you want a decent proper relationship? If you want the later, slow it down. If the guy wants you, he will be patient.

If you want the former... you got to get your libido under control girl!

 

Lets CLAP for 2 minutes for these golden words.

 

At some point or another you're going to realize the amount of times she's been 'crushed' doesn't really matter.

Are you serious? You are afraid of a girl who was in a serious relationship because she was having a lot of sex? Get the fuck over yourself. Everyone likes sex and it would be ridiculous to degrade a woman because she likes to have a lot of sex with her significant other. As long as she's not riding a different stick every night, she's fine by me.

I think it's funny. Every guy thinks they have a 'perfect angel' only to find out that she went chocolate dipping for some amount of time or that she was the sorority slut on campus. Sex is sex.

And no, you don't always know if a girl has a had a lot of sex from just crushing her. Women are made to have babies so the size of yours or someone else's tiny dick is insignificant to what she's able to handle. Women don't get 'loose' from having too much sex. Whenever a guy says 'man she was so loose, she must be a real slut' I break out in laughter because he obviously doesn't know what he's talking about and probably is proud to have moved up to the 2 digit kill numbers.

Bottom line: Who gives a fuck. Real confident men don't ask nor wonder how often their girl has been railed out, because it doesn't really matter. What she is to you is what she is. If you fault her for liking sex then you are most likely a hypocrite yourself. If she was a little wild in college, but now wants stability, SO WHAT. Are we any different?

 

It does matter when it comes to marriage though.

Would you wanna marry some chick that slept with 30 guys during her college days?

My loves sexual variety, will file divorce or cheat with a very high chance, only marry with super tight prenup and keep backup option available at all times alarm bells would just go off constantly

 

Get a grip buddy. There are A LOT of women who slept with 30 guys in their college days. That's less than 5 guys each semester; and that's if she graduates in 4 years. If she took the 5 year route, it's 3 a semester. Wow, what a slut she slept with 3 guys in a semester!

Again, get over yourself. The numbers above are irrelevant. All women are prone to cheat/divorce and honestly it usually has NOTHING to do with how sexually active she was in college. People divorce over trust issues. It's not the act of sex they divorce over, they divorce over broken trust. Some of the most loyal women I know weren't goody-two-shoes back in college.

Reality is that there are a lot of good married women who were probably mischievous back in their earlier days. Who gives a fuck? Weren't we all?

And to take the other side of the argument, just because a woman had sex with only 1 guy in college doesn't mean she's going to make a good wife. On the contrary, maybe she hasn't even been sexually awakened yet. Just wait till she meets that neighbor of yours who's got a dick yay long and yay wide and suddenly she's found a new part of life she was missing for all these years. Boom, divorce.

So to answer your question, "would I want to marry a chick who slept with 30 guys during her college days?"

My answer is I really don't know. There are much more important factors that go into consummating a marriage with another individual. I don't have a checklist in which I check off women who slept with 30 men in college. Do you? However I do have a checklist for what I believe are more important things.. let's see.. age, intelligence, looks, smile, laugh, compatibility.. nope nothing in there about her exact number of men she's slept with.

People make mistakes. I'm sure if someone took a look back into your perfect past, they would find imperfections. Doesn't mean they are a bad person to marry.

 

Girls are so deceiving. They should account for more of the sales jobs on Wall Street. I've met girls that look like an angel sent from heaven that have had 30+ sexual partners and I've met girls that look like prostitutes, but are in fact virgins.

 

If a woman is hot enough and I know that she has a kinky past i'd do her. but i'd think twice about staying long term with her.

Some of you guys misunderstood, we don't want virgins. we don't want epic sluts. we just don't want the girls that have fucked like there's no tomorrow. Sure most girls love sex. i'm not saying 'we want virgins'.
Don't straw-man the argument

Some people like women with more discretion over one with less. it's just a matter of preference. that's it. if you like long-terming with promiscuous women, then good for you, do whatever you want.

 

Hey bro, it can also be true that she truely likes the guy and wants to dump other guys and date him exclusively?
I agree most rich successful guys aint stupid, they won't spend time and money in dating a slutty type of woman who is just pumped and dumped by other men.

 

Yeah ofcz she wants to be exclusive with him. She shows him to her sisters and friends because she wants to show a trophy boyfriend .
But does the rich guy is stupid enough to invest in a whore?
I mean such type of women can never be really loyal to anyone , they can manipulate anyone in this world thats how cunning these women are.
Its better to avoid such type of women at all cost.

 

As soon as I started penetrating her, she began crying and I was 200 % sure that she is a virgin, she was such a nice manipulator and devious woman. I felt so happy and sex was great.
Later my friends told me She slept with almost everyone in the football team, I ended up dumping her.
Actually, she kept her vagina tight by doing kegels (vaginal clenching)
Dude trust me , she could give me a blowjob with her vagina, thats how developed her vaginal muscles were.
You have no idea how good the sex used to feel .

 

Can I please meet this woman?

 

LOL
If she can manipulate her vagina, she can manipulate anything in this world.

 

Im sure she would have said that she loves you and would have created a bunch of drama, thats how typically these women behave when they get dumped by the guy they really like.
I think she might have really liked you but because of her slutty past , you rejected her. And Im quite sure she knows the reason that you rejected her because of her slutty past. These women are unbelievably devious man!
You doged a bullet !

 

haha..Exactly!! I think she really liked me because she blew off other men for me , and now I have a gut feeling that she regrets what she did in the past, but hey its too late.
I can never trust her ever. These types of women can make your life a living hell.

 

So complicated, but somewhat irrelevant. The past cannot be changed; we can only live the present and hope for a good future. There are no guarantees in life. I cannot control or completely be certain about any other person. I can only commit to them, and be faithful to them, and hope they respond that way to me.
If we can learn to control ourselves here, maybe we will be able to be faithful to the woman we choose.
The lock-key analogy is twisted. Neither one should work with anyone else. Choosing to be faithful is not easy, but it allows to live proudly with the one person that we have to live with for the rest of our life. I have to live with myself, and it is easier when do what is right.