After countless streaks... Just not fapping is not enough!

Just to abstain from NoFap is not enough. I thought it was, if I would be honest. I started NoFap in September 2016, and since then I did streaks of 10, 30, 50, 92 days. But recently I adopted a strategy of constant improvement and the implementation of simple disciplines into my life. Unexpectable things happened, and I want to share an interaction I had today with this beautiful community.

I cannot believe myself. When I was in the occupational guidance center (from the state to get help about students future path) , I saw a really attractive girl, and she would enter the room after me. I did not think about anything, the just thing I thought about was that I should talk to her. It felt like automated, I did not think of anything else, I just thought I should go and talk to her. Hard to explain, but it felt automated. And after I finished I went to her, said good day and that she could enter after me. After that I asked her why she was here, she said to get knowledge of what she can do after studying. I asked her what she studied, and it was BA. I could have asked more like how it was, but I did not feel like to. Instead I said ok, have fun then, she smiled (seemed to be happy/flawed for what ever reason) , said thanks and then I went away. This is a great progress for me, I did not expect I would be able to do such an interaction so soon. (Actually, in the recent time I maintained an attitude saying that I would be able to do such a things, I stayed always positive.)

Only like 5 mins afterwards when I was sitting in the subway to go back home I realized that I never did something like that in my life, it was the first time. I simply felt like it, and I did not think of possible outcomes, I just did it. To be honest, I stammered a little when saying a word, but I simply did not give a s*it. It was my first time after all!

It may seem really insignificant to you, but it is significant for me. I never approached a girl I did not know in my life before, and finally I did. I am impressed of myself. The book I read, called "Slight Edge" may have helped me here, it is about the seemingly insignificant things that matter in life.

I know, I could have asked more to her and talked more with her, maybe I should have, but nevertheless I am proud of myself. Leaving for gym now, I hope you all will take your time to read this. Have a nice day to you all!

 

Yep, I simply felt like it. It felt automated, but natural as well. I never talked to an attractive girl I did not know before. Glad that it inspired you!

Indeed, the little things matter. I will continue living my life. This moment came out of no where, and I used the chance. Hell yeah!