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Precious life is damaging by porn

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by PinkcityDude, May 21, 2017.

  1. Hey guys
    I know pmo is harmful act.semen is very very valuable thing (not built by the body to simply drain in bathroom).In many literature semen is described as essence of man body.

    Though I repeat all those lines in my mind many times in a day . But what happens to this knowledge when I am doing pmo. Seriously I am so much addicted that many many times I had destroyed my devices so that I can escaped from porn.but when urges hit me I am unable to fight against it and I again repair my devices to see those rubbish things.
    All of my friends know that I am addicted(because my face seems so).
    I want to become attractive nice guy with clean heart.
    How to kill my sexual urges which is very very high.
    The main problem is porn.
    Please help me to solve issue.
     
  2. Jamesmwaura

    Jamesmwaura Fapstronaut

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    Bro. The part of your brain responsible for pleasure seeking has become larger that that responsible for reasoning when it comes to matters porn. It's going to be hard,but it is not going to be impossible! I'll ask you to do something ironic and it's worked for me. Whenever you feel the urge to watch porn, get out of your comfort zone- out of the house out of the neighborhood and do something else- by force. Force yourself! You won't want to but you should force yourself! Fight the urge and in a matter of three weeks, the urge will be weaker- not gone, just weaker. Also, accept that you shall not have porn in your life any more and seek to vent your sexual frustration elsewhere. Just stop! Don't wait until after you pmo before you decide to quit porn. Quit when the urge hits you and go for a walk and take a cold shower.
     
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  3. ethan.s

    ethan.s Fapstronaut

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    Generally habits consist of three stages: an cue, the habit itself, and the reward. The thing about replacing bad habits such as PMO is replacing the habit itself while keeping the same cue and reward. Identify your cue (for example mine is usually being bored and alone in my room or some other private place), and once you do, whenever you get the urge to PMO, do something else, preferably something active or productive. Just keep your mind busy. Even better, if you know what your cues are, try to avoid putting yourself in those situations altogether.
     
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  4. Thanks bro for your valuable advice. Yes u r right comfort zone is the big problem to me. It leads to those things. From today itself I will work to minimise my confront zone.
     
  5. Yes bro. Replacing bad habit with good one is a good idea.My cue is being bored in my bedroom and problem is the Computer which is placed there with high speed internet. I will download some music, games etc in my computer(till this date mostly I used my computer only to watch dirty things).

    Thank you for this valuable suggestion.
     
  6. You got this mate
     

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