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Nofap is a torch light in dark dark road but what happened to my eyes!! please help

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by PinkcityDude, May 24, 2017.

  1. Hey everyone
    A Month before I joined nofap to lead a healthy life. I took 30 days challenge but unfortunately I failed many times during that period. I was only able to reach 6 days and another time 5 days and I relapsed.sometimes I was able to hit only one or two days.this was really sad
    totally I am so disappointed now.
    I started hating myself. How can I achieve anything in life. I am in a trap of porn and masturbation.
    I am fighting acne for many years and tried lot of products but when I tried nofap first time ,my skin got clearer and then got acne from masturbation again. Have no interaction with girls.have no confidence to face girl.sexual feeling is ruling my head all time.
    Generally I fapped two times a day(really sorry to myself) and 9/10 times it is through watching porn and relapsed. Any suggestions so that I start hating porn by heart and mind and never look again that content.
    Can anyone help me please.
     
  2. laris

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    Stop feeling miserable about it.Do not overthink. Find a hobby. Try to beat your best streak
     
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  3. 3nigma

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    The title of your post lead me to believe that there was something wrong with your eyes. What's wrong with your eyes?

    What's causing you to relapse? What are your triggers? Why are you motivated to quit?
     
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  4. Fork2323

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    Put a porn blocker on all your devices.. get rid of cable tv.. look a crack head cant get free of smoking crack if he has a bag of rocks in his pocket all day long. If you dont block the access to your drug you will keep using it...
     
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  5. Alexhexvans

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  6. fapstronaut_12

    fapstronaut_12 Fapstronaut

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    We all more or less suffer from the same shit...the difference is we chose to become a higher us...a more developed one.... so can you my friend...
    You got to start believing that their is a much better version of yourself hidden deep inside...man is not just another animal...
    Keep yourself occupied with work..
    Start a hobby
    Help poor people
    Interact more with people and get to know them...
    Cherish your own life and don't waste it...
     
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  7. Yes we are friends.first of all thank you for your enlighten words.
    Yes, I will defeat my addiction to see changes.
    I hope tomorrow was the last time I saw rubbish material.Now no more self harm. I will become honest to myself.bring changes in my daily routine........
     
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  8. David0895

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    Friend, I was like you, I have been here in the forum for about two months and like you cost me time to undertake the good trip of the non-PMO, and it cost me a month or more to reach these few 25 days but very important , I also have many insecurities and many feelings of inferiority but it is often this damn addiction that generates this, such as acne problems, insecurity, depression, anxiety and infinity of negative things.
    I used to masturbate (these last months) on average about two or even three times a day, imagine all the good time that I could have used to create the projects and generate income that because of my economic situation depressed me a lot. Since I started masturbating about 10 years ago this addiction became more recurrent a few months ago as I say, I masturbated up to 4 times or 3 a day.

    I helped me enough to mentalise and visualize PMO free for me and my current girlfriend (we have not had relations) but the day that comes that moment she sees me healthier, manly, a healthy man, with new skills, with New ideals and infinity of things that in your mind will help you to be more happy, this will generate you much confidence.

    I am telling you what I have felt these 25 days without PMO, my advice is to keep your mind and body distracted, that will help you a lot in the rebooting process, remember me, if I relapsed several times since I entered the NOfap. Com and now I have been a few days that are very important.

    Take cold water baths that also help a lot whenever you feel like falling as long as you get up and even before or when you go to bed, that will help you feel clean because you will not masturbate already bathed.

    Be strong.
     
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  9. Congratulations you are on right track and keep it up and I hope soon I will on a right track. This is my day 1 and my goal is to reach 30 days and then I will extend my goals further
    Your encouraging words helps me to achieve my goals
    Thank you so much
     
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    Yes I want to achieve a new record by beating up my previous record and thus the battle continuesand one day finally wins by this addiction.....
     
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