Sex vs fapping

It's really up to you.
If you feel like it will effect your progress, then maybe you should refrain.
If you think you will be alright, then proceed.
I know members believe strongly in the PMO hardmode because of their personal history, and others only do PM free so they can be with their partner.
If you relapse after you are with your partner, because of the chaser effect, then maybe try the other way.
Whatever you decide, Good luck!

 

This comes up every other day here.

What's the point of Nofap? Improving relationships with real people. If you took your pentup sexual desires out on your wife do you think it would help or hurt your marriage? Chances are your wife wants a lot more sex then your realize.

Does she know about PMO?

 

This is a strange way of phrasing it.

 

Yes it's a bit agressive, I just ment anytime you feel a urge to PMO take it out on your wife. Hitting her hard isn't a bad thing.

 

Okay, we give you permission to have sex with you're wife, no problem

 

I think it's ok but I feel you'll benefit more from NoFap if you refrain from having sex as well . I know it might be difficult in your case since your married but I've always felt that way about this . Do What You Feel

 

I'm married and am going pmo. Have explained this to her. In my head I think I may only get to 30 days pmo then onto just pm but will see.

After reading your brain on porn I think I do want to rewire completely so it sounds like you have to stop everything . I don't want this chaser effect on me. Up to you though. Good luck in what you decide

 

Hmm, I think you mean no PMO!

 

well, when you feel an urge, the point is to be able to channel your desires into something creative.

So if a urge hits 10 times a day, will you have sex with your wife 10 times a day even if shes willing? Doesn't seem that productive.

My suggestion is to hold out with your wife, control the situation and enjoy your urges because you know you can seduce her and have sex later. Enjoy her and tease her and get her to anticipate. This will make it a lot more exciting for her.

 

My wife and I start slow, but she gets into it and wants me to hit it hard. She loves it so much that her reaction is what puts me over the edge. It feels good to have a women lustfully beg you to smash her harder.

If I could manage to have sex 10 times a day with my wife she would be super happy. In her sexually satisfied stupor she would let me get away with alot, hell maybe even let me get another Corvette. She always asks me if we could just stay home and have sex all day.... I have never made the dream come true for her. The most I have been able to do is twice maybe once we had sex three times. Very weak.

 

No we don't have little demons yet, but she's 33 and wants kids ASAP. I want kids, I just don't want to be around them.

 

I can see it now, "shh, the kids.. stop moaning, not so hard" Kid walks in "mommy... daddy!!!". Last time sex occurs with kids around.

I retreat to bathroom late at night to hide and PMO.

Fuck kids they are the worst... My life will be over soon.

 

@Kevmart87 You seem to put a lot of attention to sex.

That doesn't seem like a healthy approach to me. Hopefully it changes when you actually have children

 

Hmm, you could always send them to boarding school.