Single, lonely, hypersexual, want to get over PMO

Hi there

I'm glad to find a group like this where people are committing to changing this habit. I know it can be done but sometimes it's a struggle. And moreso with P so accessible in this internet age. But we can do it!

A little bit about why I'm here: I'm a 29 year old female, Christian background. I've struggled with PMO since my childhood. I was sexually molested at a very young age and have had a hyper interest in sex ever since. I would like to kick the habit. It feels like a part of me. I have gotten over it before but always fall back into the problem especially when I get into a relationship because of all the feelings that come with that. But with the desire to abstain from actual sex because I am a Christian, the urge to MO and eventually PMO becomes a lot stronger. Please don't try to encourage me to have sex outside of marriage. I have done this before and decided it is not a good idea for me. I am single and hope to be married someday but I need to solve my PMO problem now for my own sake. I'm open to any encouragement, suggestions and add your similar stories as well

Good luck to every one out there!

 

Thank you for the encouragement ☺. I replied to your message before seeing this post.

 

Hmmm not really. I think I used P to replace what I felt I was missing so I always looked for romantic stuff. I know that it's a slippery slope though. How are you doing with your progress?

 

Seems like you're getting there. Taking it in stages. It will take some time for the brain to rewire itself completely but your 60 day streak without M or at least O definitely helped. Keep at it!

 

Thanks D.J. I read this list of strategies and it was really helpful! Most helpful thing so far that I've seen as far as how to deal with this very real problem. Thank God for the creators of NoFap.