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Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by E15, Jun 8, 2017.

  1. E15

    E15 Fapstronaut

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    Sorry to as but as a g/friend of an addiction I'm trying to understand why he keeps looking at teen and amateur.
    I understand they're the most popular too
    Can anyone shed some light on why older men would look at this stuff. I'm talking about a 50 year old here
    Is it about power?
    Thanks
     
  2. Blackenglish2017

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    Maybe because he enjoys it like I did. But I used to watch interracial porn.
     
  3. HelloSalute

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    If you're wondering why he looks at it, and then compare it to yourself, don't do that. I had an absolutely amazing girl, sex wise and in beauty, and I still looked at porn. My girlfriend could have looked like anything and done anything for me, and at the time, I still would have looked at porn. His genre is probably just his "fetish." It has nothing to do with you... Porns just addictive :/... Why not destroy his computer? He doesn't need it does he? Do you? Disable that internet on the phone, or destroy that one too and give him a cheap phone with no internet... If it came to the marriage, I'd want you to destroy my things rather than leave me.
     
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  4. I Free I

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    It's probably just a preference, honestly . everybody has their own thing they prefer or use to prefer . To be honest, I loved searching for milfs & I'm in my 20's . even when I was teens, I'll search for older women ( in their early to late 30's) ... that's just what I prefer but those porn days are over for me. Still today though, I love women in their mid 30's, I've been like this since I was young .
     
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  5. KrmGrn

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    I wouldn't read too much into it honestly. For me, my porn preferences provided a fantasy that was quite different from who I dated and was attracted to in life. For me, my porn use and my sex life with my gf were very separate (although porn use in general definitely causes problems in relationships). For me I could always distinguish between real life and fantasy and they were very separate. Also porn preferences are more about novelty-seeking often rather than deeper unconscious desires (although they me be that for some people too).

    Basically I wouldn't worry about the porn preferences. But the porn addiction in general can definitely interfere in a relationship in my experience. Hope that helps.
     
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  6. Star Lord

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    Let's face it "teen" porn is popular because it's marketed as "innocent" or "wild college" stuff,
    not to mention the titles for such genres always have the word "tight" in the titles etc,
    every porn addict mans guilty pleasure is fantasying such things.
    It's a stereotype thing.
    An interesting fact also is that there aren't that many 18 year old pornstars, they tend to be in their early 20s and they are made to look younger with make up and certain clothes hair styles etc.

    Amateur porn is attractive to porn addicts because it's not professionally filmed like the big companies do, so it seems more real rather than scripted scenes you find in big movies. Also they are mainly from a 1st person point of view with a mobile camera so it's easier to imagine you are the one who filmed it and are the one behind the camera.

    Welcome to the mind of a Porn addict.

    I'm so glad I'm a recovering addict.
     
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  7. E15

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    Thanks guys. X
     
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