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Need your advice on PE

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by bethebreath, May 29, 2016.

  1. bethebreath

    bethebreath Fapstronaut

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    Hi Guys ;

    As i started NoFap on Jan 2016 (https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/istanbul-guy-journal.57346/) , it has been 4 months so far. Once after a month i started, i had sex with my gf , and because we live in different countries, we did not have sex after that.
    Problem is that i have premature ejaculation and i dont know if NoFap helped it or made it worse because i did not have sex yet :)))
    My question to you is that, i feel completely intense , and i will meet her in a week. Would you suggest for me to fap once before meeting or not ?
    Any recommendations are really appreciated ..
     
  2. Dizzy Lotus

    Dizzy Lotus Fapstronaut

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    Aah, PE means premature ejaculation. I thought you were talking about physical education at first [​IMG]
     
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  3. bethebreath

    bethebreath Fapstronaut

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    Yes , premature ejaculation :))
     
  4. @bethebreath Don't fap. Let her give you a HJ once you meet her and you can do something similar to her in return. Then you can have full sex later that day or next day.
     
  5. Kennen

    Kennen Fapstronaut

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    I also have PE.
    Don't fap yet.

    Feeeeeel the urge...
     
  6. WeShallNotFap

    WeShallNotFap Fapstronaut

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    im started to think that NoFap cant cure PE....im about to quit
     
    Last edited: Jun 10, 2017
  7. dico888

    dico888 Fapstronaut

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    NoFap can't cure PMO? I don't understand this sentence.

    Anyways, are you losing trust in no-PMO? How come? There are so many succes stories and I am seeing great improvements myself, after only 39 days hardmode.
    It would be a shame to throw your 161 days in the bin man. I also have these thoughts sometimes, but when I do I just wait for the next day, almost always the demotivated feeling is gone then.

    I see you are only quitting P and M? Maybe you should give hardmode a try? No-PMO completely.
     
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  8. WeShallNotFap

    WeShallNotFap Fapstronaut

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    read again, it was wrong
     
  9. dico888

    dico888 Fapstronaut

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    Ahhh. Well I don't know enough about PE to really have a say in it :(

    I gave a reply because I thought I read that you had no trust in Nofap completely.
     
  10. franco216

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    So if there's a trick to help against PE, why not try it out. Maybe it works, what do I know. Apparently for some people, it works like they fap and then last longer.

    If there are similar tricks regarding ED (my current problem), I would want to try those out, too.

    This being said, my general advice would be, not to fap. And I know - regarding my ED - there are certain more radical measures like hormons, medicin or whatnot that I probably won't just try out.

    In the end it depends on your goal. If you feel like there is this annoying little problem, PE, and you found a trick to overcome it, maybe you are fine.

    If, on the other hand, however, you believe there are issues regarding your sexuality and PE ist just a symptom, I would tend to stay PMO-free whenever possible. Let your body find a new balance, disrupt old habits, consider the experiences of other people ... To me, the challenge was a great way of learning about myself. And the somewhat depressing insight so far was, that my issues go a bit deeper and any superficial trick won't do for me.
     
  11. bethebreath

    bethebreath Fapstronaut

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    Weshallnotfap ;
    It has been one year since i openned this thread.
    And i can say NoFap is helping with PE.. but mostly its not fapping or not fapping is the real cause of PE (thats what i think) .. its anxiety , stress and self esteem that forces PE more. So in addition no fapping , its helpful to do other stuff which will decrease anxiety and boost self confidence and learning more about sex.
    I can say i am better , still having the issue .
    What do you think is the cause and tell me more detail if you can..
     
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