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Does it me, or this is Porn?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by BigK69, Jul 18, 2014.

  1. BigK69

    BigK69 Fapstronaut

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    Okey my problem is this:
    I'm in to BDSM. But I wonder how much of my... fascination of bonded young ladies it's real me, and how many of this is my desensitization to "normal" stuff?
    Anybody have similare dylema?
     
  2. Traveler85

    Traveler85 Fapstronaut

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    I think there are natural, healthy inclinations towards positions of superiority and/or inferiority in sex, but I'd say the fetishized BDSM porn (esp. young women) is mostly developed throughout a period of desensitization and PMO. I am straight and had a "normal" sex life, but throughout my battle I have drifted into hardcore, BDSM, racial, gay, and other alternatives, etc. at varying levels of severity. I think your experience is normal.
     
  3. The Thinker

    The Thinker Fapstronaut

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    FFS this is a tempting topic for me... I'll just leave some quick advice.

    From my point of view, you will only know if it's part of your nature, if you've tried it in real life, with a person you like and respect.
    It's something completely different because you have to come to a point first, where you say to yourself: "hey, the sex is great and all, but I'm missing something here and want to really try it out."
    Before you get there, I'm pretty sure it's all only your conditioned tastes from watching bdsm-porn. If you can be satisfied without that, why consider it anyway?
    ...I tried some things that I found extremely hot in porn with a girl I was with once, but then I quickly found out, that it's not a turn-on at all with her. Not because she didn't like it, but just because it wasn't the same thing for me.

    Remember: Your brain wants you to think that you need those foreign, forbidden images to feel pleasure. But it's not true, unless you experience it in a genuine sexual situation (you get what I mean).
     
  4. NoFap2000

    NoFap2000 Fapstronaut

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    Well,BDSM is definitely perverted. Please don't mind!

    But going through this nofap program will surely improve you.

    I was also BDSM lover. But after a week it was all gone. Now after 19 days of nofap, even non nude hot girls images really drives me crazy.
     

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