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Today is 90 days that I'm clear

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by green lion eating the sun, Jun 4, 2017.

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  1. Jun 6, 2017 #21
    green lion eating the sun

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    I'm not too afraid about the chaser effect. I'm afraid to have sex in the way I ended up in the last year especially. I don't want to have sex like in porn anymore and get depressed and ashamed after. I mean with my last guy I had sex not very romantic or just normal. Sometimes yes but I realized at the end that it meant something just for me

    I prefer not having sex at all. I don't have urges to have sex for example in this period long several months. First time not having any desire to have sex and honestly feels great :emoji_dancer:
     
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  2. Jun 6, 2017 #22
    Crimson

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    I think the way to do it is to just wait till you ready and then just take it nice and also be in the moment completely and try enjoy more of the emotional side of it then the physical

    And to be fair I'm in the same boat for my current streak like I dunno how to exsplain it like I wanna be close to a person like that but my body's and mind are busy with other things for me the lack of arosual is sort of a blessing and curse and occasionally causes me to worry but I guess that's normal since doing the deed is a very built in biological function
     
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  3. Jun 6, 2017 #23
    Commited2Health

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    Thanks for sharing. Makes a huge difference for all of us when you share your story!
    "I'm never going back to that"!! ME NEITHER! Enjoy life!
     
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  4. Jun 6, 2017 #24
    green lion eating the sun

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    the point is I had with my him only a. sex. that's it but I felt very bad after and profoundly ashamed. I wanted to do it in a normal way. For me it's not a problem showing an emotional side during sex but I got trust issues now. I can't picture having sex with someone new, getting naked, sharing the bed, waking next to that person. I don't think I can do that again
     
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  5. Jun 6, 2017 #25
    perseverence24

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    Congratulations on your acomplishment! You are my motivation for today. Thank you.
     
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  6. Jun 7, 2017 #26
    Love_Travelling

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    Congrats! Hope I can be like you!
     
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  7. Jun 7, 2017 #27
    Crimson

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    To be fair with you that's something that will come with time like you've had a bad patch your meet someone new and just have to slowly build up trust with that person I felt the same personally a few years ago after a long relationship that I could never trust someone like that again or get close to someone again it took a while but I eventually did it also didn't work out but I know that there is hope you just gotta find the right person at the right time really then build on it :)
     
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  8. Jun 10, 2017 #28
    green lion eating the sun

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    I feel very lonely lately. It's been 4 months since he left me. Sometimes I'd like to be back in the dating scene again

    Go on dates with a sexy guy. Max making out. No sex. Feel wanted by someone. Do you think that I am ready? Could it be good for me?
     
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  9. Jun 10, 2017 #29
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    I hope you can feel safe enough to allow someone to enjoy life with you again soon. I think that's what nofap is about. Making real life connections.
     
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  10. Jun 11, 2017 #30
    green lion eating the sun

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    forget it, I appreciate you but I can't. I realized I cannot do that. I concentrate on myself and to stick to my reboot. Being with someone brings only pain
     
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  11. Jun 11, 2017 #31
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    I hope you find the motivation to achieve 3 times more than these number of days.
    Stay strong, stay focused and keep inspiring us.
     
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  12. Jun 11, 2017 #32
    green lion eating the sun

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    Thank you :emoji_hugging: keep rebooting you too :emoji_muscle::emoji_ok_woman:
     
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  13. Jun 11, 2017 #33
    I will win

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    Congrats! Stay strong and never look down!, i'm glad that you made it that far, i wish i could go 90 days without watching porn or masturbating. That would be one of my greatest achievements ever! and now you can start enjoying your healthy life, Best wishes ;)
     
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  14. Jun 11, 2017 #34
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    Very inspiring post Phoenix. How old are you out of curiosity?
     
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  15. Jun 11, 2017 #35
    green lion eating the sun

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    Thanks :) i will, you can do it! I thought I couldn't do it but look how far I got up to now and it's getting easier and easier. On my first 30 days I was going to cry, that was wonderful :emoji_bow: Don't give up! :emoji_ok_woman: congratz on your 5 days :emoji_nerd: everyday you are in recovery is a win, you are doing a good work :emoji_grinning::emoji_clap:
     
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  16. Jun 11, 2017 #36
    green lion eating the sun

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    Cheers mate :) btw I am a 25-year-old girl
     
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  17. Jan 4, 2018 #37
    Rajarsh

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    You are a true inspiration. Congratulation on completing 90 days ( i know you are on 300+ days, but keep in mind that I am going to complete my 90 days tomorrow that's why i said you are an inspiration to me and i am going to follow you. )I can see how you have gone up 300+ days and its keep motivating me to go on... Thanks for being here. :)
     
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