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does looking for hot models a relapse?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by gameit, Jun 14, 2017.

  1. gameit

    gameit Fapstronaut

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    did it twice and dont know what to do now. did i hurt my process?
     
  2. Not yet soon or later it will be, if you don't stop actions
     
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  3. w95chris

    w95chris Fapstronaut

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    Yes it is if you did it on purpose.If for example you saw a hot model but after 2 seconds you looked away or kept scrolling then it is not a relapse.If you did it on purpose which means looking for specific pictures and going to places where these hot models exist for that exact reason then it is hurting your process.

    Of course you cannot avoid all p content (or hot pictures for example) because they are almost everywhere but if you don't pay attention and don't look at it for more than 2-3 seconds then you are OK.If you keep doing it on purpose then you will eventually go back to p before you know it or you will fap by looking these pictures so stop it now before it gets worse
     
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  4. gameit

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    so like to start over?
     
  5. I would, if I were you. This is dangerous behavior...even if you don't act out on what your see, you're still feeding your brain that dopamine hit. It's only a matter of time before a full-blown reset if you keep doing this.
     
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  6. Sans_Fear

    Sans_Fear Fapstronaut

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    I have been talking to someone on social media but I do not have lustful thoughts in my head. It's more when I go outside that I need to control those urges.
     
  7. gameit

    gameit Fapstronaut

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    so to start over or just stop looking at this?
     
  8. hoping_cannon

    hoping_cannon Distinguished Fapstronaut

    If you look at those hot models with eyes of lust, then it will eventually push you for a relapse. My request to you is that please use PANIC BUTTON on top right corner before it push you for a relapse. My suggestion is that see models as a part of fashion.
     
  9. gameit

    gameit Fapstronaut

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    so youre telling me not to relapse?
     
  10. Everyone is telling you the same thing: stop purposely looking at pictures of hot models. Whether you decide to consider this as a relapse is up to you.
     
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  11. hoping_cannon

    hoping_cannon Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Never relapse. If you are out of control just hit PANIC BUTTON and it will take care of you by stopping your relapse.
     
  12. gameit

    gameit Fapstronaut

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    my question is did i lose any benefits?? did i stepped away of my goal?
     
  13. OK...fine. Yes, this was a relapse. Yes, you need to start over. Yes, you may have set yourself back, and yes, you need to stop seeking out pictures like that.
     
  14. The_Monk

    The_Monk Guest

    This models are not worthy. Do they look at us?, no right.
     
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  15. hoping_cannon

    hoping_cannon Distinguished Fapstronaut

    watching pictures of hot models doesn't mean that you relapse but slowly it will take to you to the path of relapse.
     
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  16. gameit

    gameit Fapstronaut

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    well than, thats it i will not relapse not today and never! from now on i will add to my journey the challenge of abstaining from hot pictures all alike and i already added the *panic button* to my favorites on chrome!!! thx you all guys it really helped me!!!
     
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  17. gameit

    gameit Fapstronaut

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    seriously?
     
  18. The_Monk

    The_Monk Guest

    Be strict with your commitments. Before looking at this unworthy things, think about why did you start this journey
     
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  19. hoping_cannon

    hoping_cannon Distinguished Fapstronaut

    its my pleasure to help you out. stay strong!!!!
     
  20. hoping_cannon

    hoping_cannon Distinguished Fapstronaut

    well said
     
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