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10-15 days 3nd part of the thread (For people that aren´t advanced yet -or after relapse!)

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by _overcomer_, May 13, 2017.

  1. Nikunj Lad

    Nikunj Lad Fapstronaut

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    I feel not so good. I reached a maximum of 21 days only once and then I relapsed. I feel like quitting. It's the weekends and loneliness that kills me. What should I do? I feel like giving up! Feels like there is a demon sitting inside me. I don't want to end up like this..!
     
  2. I will win

    I will win Fapstronaut

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    Giving up is the worst thing that you can ever do. If you give up, it means that you aren't serious about quitting this addiction. Also can you tell me what have you ever done beside nofap in your "21 days" Nothing, right? You do not need to just stand there and do nofap. What you really need is to do something else: draw, learn how to code, and learn a new language. Otherwise, you'll end up relapsing. Not faping is of course a success, having said that, it's not enough alone. Don't think that quitting this addiction will bring your life back. There're many hard obstacles in everyone's life and this addiction is one of the hardest obstacles ever! But quitting this addiction will truly show how strong you are. And you'll be able to defeat the other obstacles as well. The bottom line is that "Being challenged is inevitable, but being defeated is optional" .
     
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  3. CG33

    CG33 Fapstronaut

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    @I will win Well said man. In my limited experience with nofap and extensive experience fighting other addictions, recovery is an active process, not a passive one. Not PMOing is only half the battle and most likely not enough. One thing that helped me alot when loneliness became crushing was to volunteer at my local dog pound. i love dogs and anything that gets you out of the house is a good thing. Don't quit man! Be kind to yourself and talk to someone: family, friends, anyone.
     
  4. I will win

    I will win Fapstronaut

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    Just a few hours and I'll complete this challenge! I feel so great!
     
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  5. I will win

    I will win Fapstronaut

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    Yay! I completed this challenge! horray for me !
     
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  6. _overcomer_

    _overcomer_ Fapstronaut

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    WOW, thats great!
     
  7. BeeChris

    BeeChris New Fapstronaut

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    Hey, everyone, I reached Day 10 and was ready for Day 11 but was triggered and couldn't get away from the compulsion, I slipped with "MO", felt not too terrible the next day but that night which was last night, I relapsed with "PMO" was speaking with an ex briefly. No excuses but need to mind myself more in the evenings/nights. I will use this forum and panic buttons more for sure.
    I found it an amazing feeling being clear of "PMO" - it was the longest since being a young teenager. It's a feeling you can describe - it's like a clarity.
    **I forgot to reset me clock** do I got back to earlier threads now? I am guessing so
     
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  8. _overcomer_

    _overcomer_ Fapstronaut

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    Great, that you made 11days. Yes, I wish you the best to do it again and even further!!!
     
  9. Baldur

    Baldur Fapstronaut

    I am in! All the best!
    /Baldur
     
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  10. Baldur

    Baldur Fapstronaut

    Still going strong. Day 13. All the best and keep your head up high!
    /Baldur
     
  11. t8031t

    t8031t Fapstronaut

    completed day 12
     

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