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Im sure i won't have sex

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Johnson Tr, Jun 13, 2017.

Nofap would be in favor of me

Poll closed Jun 20, 2017.
  1. Do mo with no p

    18.2%
  2. Dont

    81.8%
  1. Johnson Tr

    Johnson Tr Fapstronaut

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    İ've been trying nofap for a little at first i relapsed second day than i had 5 days and this time im at 7th day even wasn't registered. İm going to somewhere woman wear hijab. Im not so aged so it considered not well for me to have any kind of fun including sex. My parents are literally happy that im lonely. "Our son have never sexed before!" They would probably say proudly. Im thinking confidence is nice but it will not be replaced by sex ım for sure. I resist to urges but it's all for nothing other than rebooting which i would rather do it when i start enjoying bdsm or whatever. So what should keep me from not fapping.
     
  2. HipPete

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    Hey buddy, I think you just need someone who can relate to you. We're here for you. Don't do anything radical that you will regret for the rest of your life. Skepticism will destroy you. Keep the nofap, you're skipping a crucial step. It's like asking the stove to give you heat before applying wood. You've got to put the fuel in before you can expect heat. Just like how you want sex, you've got to keep at nofap so that you develop a more social life which can then lead to relationship and perhaps sex. Nothing was ever attained in an instant but through sheer will and hard work. I wish you the best.
     
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  3. Johnson Tr

    Johnson Tr Fapstronaut

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    I totally forgot about social life that would worth it thank you so much
     
  4. Johnson Tr

    Johnson Tr Fapstronaut

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    I won't relapse im cool.
     
  5. Ocean Man

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    Yeah I totally agree with aguy100 . It's inevitable sometimes, we will be at one point alone. But when we are lonely we should see what's making us feel that way and make sure that this feeling of loneliness is not severe.
     
  6. FindingAName

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    idk about the whole relate thing, but there are so many sites for this guy to find sex instantly, if he is that desperate he will just go on a site and find a women to have sex with
     
  7. HipPete

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    Heh, yes that is true but I don't see that as a long term solution. Anyways, I kinda got this feeling that the OP was falling down a dark path which could lead him to become a lone wolf or even worst a pawn in the recruitment of unspeakable radical religious war.
     
  8. Johnson Tr

    Johnson Tr Fapstronaut

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    İ relapsed without p. From now on each time i touch my dick i will use nofap. Every time i relapse i happened to be watching boring videos on youtube and grabbing my dick. I will do 90 days this time i solved my weakness see you on the other side.
     
  9. FindingAName

    FindingAName Banned User

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    *drags you out of the first day :) }
     
  10. Johnson Tr

    Johnson Tr Fapstronaut

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    The part that makes me sad is that i didn't even enjoyed i was at my highest streak of nofap from my beggining of teenage years.
     
  11. FindingAName

    FindingAName Banned User

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    we all have low points, i am right now getting hard urges to go back, but im resisting, we can all do the same
    if you are at a low point press the panic button at the top right part of the screen, or go read some success stories, you wouldnt believe how bad i felt after reading all these negative stories, i felt so much worse then usual, but reading success stories takes the edge off and reminds you why you started
     
  12. Johnson Tr

    Johnson Tr Fapstronaut

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    I relapsed with no p. I tricked myself that hard mode wasn't for me and i could do easy mode stuff. One thing for sure at least, no porn. I will try doing 9 days this time i break my own rule i didn't read stuff here and just kept going. I feel like it won't help me other than boosting my confidence, i think it will stop boosting me after the wet dreams at 7th. Even though i know the answer i just trick myself at somepoint. From now on instead of grab the dick read the forum rule i will simply read it when i have nothing to do. I will keep updating.
     
  13. Johnson Tr

    Johnson Tr Fapstronaut

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    I will do that thanks for the advise. I will do it on the times that im bored so i will have a mindset before thinking dirty.
     
  14. @Johnson Tr, your parents are happy you have no girlfriend and you haven't had sex because they still see you as an inexperienced child and they don't want you to suffer from the possibly negative consequences of a relationship (disappointment, breaking up with a girl, neglecting school, etc). I used to have exactly the same problem with my parents, and I ended up hating them.

    But I can tell you that their attitude is to a certain extent normal. What you have to do is prove that you are not a child, that you are focused on doing something with your life, that you don't waste your time and that you know how to speak and have the courage to speak to them about anything.

    So, when you speak to your parents, never raise your voice or yell to impose your point of view, always use very carefully thought arguments and listen to their problems, too. Always try to help your parents - they deserve it, even if sometimes you may think the contrary. I know what you think: this is work. But it's the only way to gain appreciation not only from your parents, but from anybody, including girls. Being a child is easy, but it brings you frustration, because you depend on others. Being a man is hard work, but it also brings benefits.

    Don't think that for the other guys it's easy. Watch other more experienced guys and learn from them. What do they do in order to have a good character and personality, and to look good?
     

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