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Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Blackenglish2017, Jun 14, 2017.

  1. The petty shit you people argue over.
     
  2. Instead of arguing among each other, why don't you guys try to find SOLUTIONS instead of PROBLEMS?
     
  3. Josh88

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    Matrix Intel, I am all about finding solutions. That is exactly what I am hoping to communicate. My solution has been "take responsibility for your eyes and quit blaming women for how they dress."
     
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  4. Josh88

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    My solution is: You can't change your environment (e.g. women dressed provocatively). However, you can change how you respond.
     
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  5. Bel

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    No Josh it's called the blame game. There's a term that used to exist called personal responsibility. ....it's dead now. Killed by the little people who could not express their own shortcomings as , well.....wait for it....their OWN. So obviously all the negative shit in our lives ...yeah it's someone else's fault.
    Perhaps if men didn't act like goats in heat for , what is the term tossed around here, slut dressing, then perhaps there'd be less reward i.e. attention reaped. Every movement has to start somewhere , best place is with ourselves.
     
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  6. Josh88

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    Well said Bel. Men (not all of course) don't want to take personal responsibility for what happens in their heads. Instead, they put the blame on women for being attractive. Pathetic. As a man myself, I'm sorry for men calling women "sluts" for how they dress. It's the same line of thinking when one says "a rape victim was 'asking for it' for dressing provocatively." That's bullshit. Men need to take responsibility and quit playing the blame game.
     
  7. I agree that men need to control how they respond, but many have the notion that they are powerless and can't change their environment. The powers that be want you believe you are powerless, when the reality is very different. Never underestimate the power of ideas and thoughts. After all, look what ideas and thoughts have done to jack up society. Stop with the peasant mentality.
     
  8. We are entering an era of world peace and prosperity, but it will be taken away swiftly by massive natural disasters. Try to increase this peace and prosperity while it lasts because when destruction comes, the entire world and humanity will fall apart. Gather your army together now, so you may bring as many people to the light when that time does come.
     
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  9. Buddhabro

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    ROTFL!!!
     
  10. Buddhabro

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    Time and place. Appropriate attire for the environment and occasion is an expression of civility.
    All I ask is that things are civil when public interactions are necessary.
     
  11. Josh88

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    Matrix Intel, I'm all for empowering ourselves to the best of our ability and make a positive impact in the enviroment. When I said that we "can't change our enviroment", in context, I was saying that we cannot change how women dress. We cannot impose a dress code. I would say we are powerless in trying to have power over women. We cannot force or expect women to dress more "appropiately" or "less provocatively." In the middle east, they actually do that. Women are covered in burqas because men want to control women's bodies and keep their power and status as men. A peasant mentality is someone who is reactive. Who blames others. Who does not want to take resposability.
     
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  12. Ocean Man

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    Yeah I get you. But I live in the Caribbean, where is summer the whole year and women wear short revealing clothes all year. Sometimes I might look, like if the girl is crazy hot I might look. A side from that, I pretty much got used to see women of all ages in bikini everyday XD.
     
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  13. So I can be naked in public and show my cock, right ? And women have to be responsible with their eyes, I would be absolutely appropriate ? Ok. You continue with the bollocks....
     
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  14. No arguing with that. When you put it that way, it seems extremely hypocritical, got to say.
     
  15. But of course, people will always, always find a way to argue back, effectively wasting your time. Just say what you have to say and leave it as that.
     

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