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Problem because of our society

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Abhishek Sahu, Jun 20, 2017.

  1. Jun 20, 2017 #1
    Abhishek Sahu

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    Hello I am from India and there are strict rules of the society that you can't have sex before marriage and can't do marriage if you are not well settled, I started developing orgasms when I was 18 years old and wanted to have sex, right now I am 24 years old but still single and have never experienced sex at all. So in order to get rid of this I started doing PMO and kept on doing this. After 3-4 years from now I would likely to get married when I would be well settled but till then I would not be in the position to satisfy my wife as I read about the relationship problems that many members are facing.

    So, I just wanna ask you all that where is my fault in all these if I would be unable to satisfy my wife then its the rules of society that made me to suffer. One more thing there is nudity everywhere from magazines to television so you just can't escape it even if you stop watching porn these television ads and magazines will arouse you to start the PMO. Please help me I feel worse after knowing that the problem I am suffering is not mine but the society's but it is ultimately me who is going to suffer.
     
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  2. Jun 20, 2017 #2
    r8js

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    TV is filthy device. avoid TV. porn movies is advancement of filthy TV device.
    if u can avoid TV, u can easily avoid whole PMO for rest of ur life.
     
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  3. Jun 20, 2017 #3
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    You should not blame on society as it's a part of the culture.
    Take responsibility of your own as I see from your post, you're just desperate to have a sex & that's the reason that you're blaming on society.
    Don't take it negative bro & I'm not judging you, that's the effect of PMO.
    So what I'm saying is sex is just a part of the life but there is more in the life.
    You'll understand after complete reboot what I'm saying.
    In short, know your triggers now & get rid of these all social media, TV, magazines, etc. that triggers you.
    Stay strong & stay clean.
    Peace.
     
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  4. Jun 20, 2017 #4
    Abhishek Sahu

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    Thanx man for your reply maybe you are right so I am going to do this because we have to live in this society and if we can't get it then we should do the thing that can make us strong towards the thing that you don't wanna do or can't do. Thanx a lot.
     
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  5. Jun 20, 2017 #5
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    I am an indian person living in america. It is much harder here because my culture prohibits what you said, yes western society encourages it as it makes you a man. See how difficult it is for an Indian born in the US to selfish immigrant parents who think they know what is right? I fully understand your pain. I have no real answer either. Would you like to message me privately?
     
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  6. Jun 20, 2017 #6
    Malek98

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    The Battousai is correct, we all must take responsibility for our actions and aspire to be greater than what we were. We all possess the ability to forge our own destinies. Just as there is tools spread out everywhere to coerce us to seek our own destruction, there is also means to seek our own salvation...
     
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  7. Jun 21, 2017 #7
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    I can see the 'Wolf of Mibu' here that it is...
    Peace.
    [​IMG]
     
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  8. Jun 22, 2017 #8
    Abhishek Sahu

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    Yes DonDraper can we become friends and please tell me how to message privately I am new here. Thanx a lot.
     
    Abhishek Sahu, Jun 22, 2017
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