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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by WittLowryfan0915, Jun 22, 2017.

  1. Jun 22, 2017 #1
    WittLowryfan0915

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    I need some advice and opinions right now. Or maybe I just need to vent.
    So this morning i had an erection, which is fine, brushed it off as nothing. But then i couldnt stop thinking about this girl, and eventually I had some precum.
    Now, i was out playing basketball and when i came inside the house i noticed my underwear was stained. I went to lay on the couch to relax and maybe nap and the thoughts returned. I made a mess of precum. I honestly didnt know whether to reset my counter or not. I feel like trash and a failure. i dont know if i came or not, dont know if i cheated. My friends say that its just a part of growing up, but i feel like maybe thats an excuse. Im 13, but i dont know if this is just puberty or me cheating the system. Please help me.
     
    WittLowryfan0915, Jun 22, 2017
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  2. Jun 22, 2017 #2
    w95chris

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    @WittLowryfan0915 I would not count it as a relapse.You made some thoughts about a girl and that is OK it happens some times no problem there.The problem is when you focus on these thoughts and then relapse.You just had precum there is nothing wrong there.Sometimes i get horny for no reason and i just continue with what i am doing by ignoring whatever is about to keep me from my goal.So in the end it is not a relapse not by a longshot.At least according to my personal opinion but in the end it is up to you.If you feel like you did nothing wrong then there you go no need to have doubts and regrets
     
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  3. Jun 22, 2017 #3
    WittLowryfan0915

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    Thanks man, i appreciate this. I need to learn to ignore these thoughts.
     
    WittLowryfan0915, Jun 22, 2017
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  4. Jun 23, 2017 #4
    LewisRemlarp

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    You've made it 229 days and you're beating yourself up because of some precum?

    Forgive me if I'm wrong but after such a stint with NoFap do you feel you're getting close to a reboot? 229 days with no masturbation (you beat the porn a long time ago) is a hell of a lot of time. If you haven't ejaculated at all I'd say your body is trying to regulate itself.

    229 days man!!
     
    LewisRemlarp, Jun 23, 2017
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  5. Jun 23, 2017 #5
    WittLowryfan0915

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    I know, I've had precum before. My problem was that the after effects felt like a relapse almost, like post wet dream. Thanks for the wake up call, I need to stay vigilant. Stay strong, friends.
     
    WittLowryfan0915, Jun 23, 2017
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