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Homemade porn

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by TiredBloke2014, Jul 25, 2014.

  1. Jul 25, 2014 #1
    TiredBloke2014

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    What do you guys think about porn made with your significant others? I have been into porn for about 20 years and am 7 days into no PMO. Its kinda fun still but i know ive got one helluva deep-rooted habit here. I can walk away from it but i really do not want to delete my 6gb of porn i made with my wife. I am not watching it cuz i realize that i still get in the dopamine loop but hope to be able to use our porn ONLY someday. What u think?
     
    TiredBloke2014, Jul 25, 2014
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  2. Jul 25, 2014 #2
    HispanicMON

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    Sounds good to me

    I think it's okay as long as you don't get carried away and watch other types of porn on the web

    Lol, kind of sounds like the movie "sex tape"
     
    HispanicMON, Jul 25, 2014
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  3. Jul 25, 2014 #3
    Schmutzigeskind

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    I guess this fits into my idea of "real sex". I think it's a good idea that you are taking a break from it while you are trying to get away from "all sex".

    For me, though, if I wanted to re-live some sex with my girl, I would get it on and do it. What do you think?
     
    Schmutzigeskind, Jul 25, 2014
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  4. Jul 26, 2014 #4
    Tombuktu

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    I am personally wondering why you intend to hold on to home made porn. Like you, I am married and had made porn with my my wife in the past. Although she was part of it and willingly agreed and participated, it was my idea and she went along just because she loves me and thought that I will enjoy it. In my experience, my wife has never requested to watch it and done so in my absence by herself. It has always been me.

    My conclusion then is that home made porn for me was for my selfish desires and urges rather than for mutual enjoyment even though I had a "willing" partner. It may appear as a sign of a healthy couple sex life, but it is deception. The whole thing about PMO is that it is self-centred, self-absorbed, and self-everything else. I personally think that it is not wise to keep it and have gone ahead and deleted mine. But this is just me :cool:

    For me porn is porn, whether it is home made or Hollywood made. If you keep your home made porn you will reach a stage where it doesn't do much for you any more, and you will need variety and more sleak and well produced and extreme stuff to give you the level of dopamine you crave. Before long you will be back where you started with addiction.

    Think of it this way: what would you think of a recovering alcoholic who intends to keep his home made whisky so that he can enjoy it some day? Or a drug addict intending to keep his home made drugs and staying away for the ones made in a lab?

    Alcohol is alcohol, whether home brewed or liquor store purchased. Drug is drug, whether home produced or dealer supplied! Porn is porn, whether home made or internet acquired!

    These are my thoughts. But honestly, only you can make the right decision based on what you know about yourself and circumstances :cool:
     
    Tombuktu, Jul 26, 2014
    Tombuktu, Jul 26, 2014
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