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I Don't Think This Is a Relapse

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by We CAN Do This!, Jul 7, 2017.

  1. We CAN Do This!

    We CAN Do This! Fapstronaut

    So I was just sat at my computer about 5-10 minutes ago, and I had quite a serious erection. Now, you must understand that I wasn't looking at porn or planning on MO'ing.

    I very briefly touched 'down there' as I was feeling some discomfort, and before I knew it, it just came gushing out. I didn't even feel a real O, maybe just a tiny bit.

    i didn't mean for this to happen, I wasn't looking at porn and I'm on a great streak (for me anyway).

    I really don't want to have to reset my counter when I'm 2 days away from breaking a record.

    Opinions?
     
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  2. Flyhigh

    Flyhigh Fapstronaut

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    If you didn't PMO then it's not a reset.
     
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  3. We CAN Do This!

    We CAN Do This! Fapstronaut

    Okay, thanks for the input buddy.
     
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  4. Millenial

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    Give yourself a break...no I would not say that is a relapse.
    You will know if you 'crossed the line'.
    However, remain vigilant and try to keep up your good streak!
     
  5. We CAN Do This!

    We CAN Do This! Fapstronaut

    Thanks, I was expecting someone to say 'Yes, reset your counter and go be depressed again' (or something like that).

    Glad this website is full of understanding people to help each other along the way :)
     
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  6. The_Monk

    The_Monk Guest

    I am not getting you...you didn't watch porn nor you touched yourself then also how can you cum?
     
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  7. We CAN Do This!

    We CAN Do This! Fapstronaut

    I did touch myself briefly just to 'move it' because the erection was causing discomfort in it's current position. (sorry if that's a bit graphical! :eek:)
     
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  8. PasterofMuppets

    PasterofMuppets Fapstronaut

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    No, this was NOT a relapse.
    However, the fact that you came just like this, like, just by touching is weird, see a doctor if it happens again.
     
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  9. The_Monk

    The_Monk Guest

    It's not a relapse if you have not done anything intentionally
     
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  10. Flyhigh

    Flyhigh Fapstronaut

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    Maybe it's just excitement and build up of fluid that gave way to it.
     
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  11. We CAN Do This!

    We CAN Do This! Fapstronaut

    That's what I thought. It's been about 2 or 3 months since I've gone this long without PMO. Maybe my body was struggling with this sudden change.
     
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  12. PasterofMuppets

    PasterofMuppets Fapstronaut

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    Yeah, I think horniness combined with unusual semen buildup has caused this, but if it happens again and again get yourself checked.
     
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  13. We CAN Do This!

    We CAN Do This! Fapstronaut

    I certainly will. I think strong urges and the fact that this is the first time I've passed 5 days since about 2 months contributed towards it.
     
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  14. The_Monk

    The_Monk Guest

    Try to calm your erection as soon as possible from now. Wear loose clothes
     
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  15. We CAN Do This!

    We CAN Do This! Fapstronaut

    I do tend to wear slim-fit clothing so I guess that doesn't help.
     
  16. Fork2323

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    You jizzed in your pants.. at times i have felt ready to burst and when i had lots of it built up i just kissed a girl i jizzed in my pants. It can happen..
    You did not relapse, but you did loose some chi. If you are into that sort of thing. Which i am.. i learned to do tantra exercise and meditations to transmute the sexual energy up. But just lots of physical ecercise will do this too.

    The real issue to watch for is the Chaser effect. I have had a wet dream that triggered me into a relapse. Be really carfeful the next few days. This was not a relapse but could lead to one really easy.
     
  17. We CAN Do This!

    We CAN Do This! Fapstronaut


    Thanks for the advice. I'm very aware of the chaser effect and what it can do, having been victim to it for many, many months.

    I'm going to be visiting family tomorrow, so hopefully that will prevent a relapse, and I may take a long walk Sunday, and then it's a new week so I'll think about that when it arrives :)
     
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  18. HappyDaysAreHereAgain

    HappyDaysAreHereAgain Fapstronaut

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    @I Need Help , at your age it doesn't take much work to blow a load. You can enjoy having a young healthy body now, and if you avoid traps like PMO, you'll enjoy a mature healthy body. It will function well when needed, but won't blow a load without warning.
     
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  19. Josh88

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    Seems like you are regaining sensitivity "down there." This is normal in the rebooting process. If you were not looking at porn or fantasizing in your head then is not a relapse. You are becoming sensitive, which is a good thing!
     
  20. filippo123

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    Dont worry, you did not do it.
     
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