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Would you ever masturbate again after a certain point?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by w95chris, Jul 3, 2017.

Would you masturbate again after some point?

Poll closed Sep 12, 2017.

  1. Yes

    14 vote(s)
    36.8%

  2. No

    18 vote(s)
    47.4%

  3. Maybe...i need to think on that

    6 vote(s)
    15.8%
  1. Jul 3, 2017 #1
    w95chris

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    I am curious really to see how many of you would you consider on doing that.Yesterday and today were really difficult days because i had these strong urges to fap and my imagination running wild but i held on somehow and it got me thinking.

    Would you ever consider that ever after a certain point?I mean for example i am on day 125 and i did consider a few times to fap but i did not because i wasn't sure about my healing process and i did not want all this effort to go to waste.In my personal opinion if you are healed then you can fap (without porn that is because that need to be left alone) as long as you keep it under control.But it is quite dangerous because it can get out of control really fast and before you know it you are back to where you started

    The right answer here i think is what you feel is best for you.So guys would you do it?
    If yes why is that?
    If no then why not?
     
    w95chris, Jul 3, 2017
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  2. Jul 3, 2017 #2
    tehsliceofcake

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    I'm gonna vote, yes. I do think it's going to be very rare or a part of partnered sex, though.
     
    tehsliceofcake, Jul 3, 2017
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  3. Jul 9, 2017 #3
    Nouvel Homme

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    Would be happy to masturbate with a good bro. :emoji_monkey_face:
     
    Nouvel Homme, Jul 9, 2017
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  4. Jul 9, 2017 #4
    FlatlineFred

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    Yes but want to recover from flatline first
     
    FlatlineFred, Jul 9, 2017
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  5. Jul 10, 2017 #5
    w95chris

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    It is a good idea in theory but it is quite dangerous.I tried and it is harder hanging on.I am cured so i tried it a few days ago but now sometimes it is harder to hold on because the urges are strong.If anyone is thinking about fapping after the reboot is over and the brain has recovered i would suggest caution during the next few days because if you are not strong enough then most likely you will fap again
     
    w95chris, Jul 10, 2017
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  6. Jul 10, 2017 #6
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    It depends on the state of mind while fapping.
     
    Deleted Account, Jul 10, 2017
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  7. Jul 10, 2017 #7
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    I agree with The Peace Warrior, but I'll also add that I would not do that. Here are my reasons:

    1. First and foremost, there is no need to masturbate. Period. All the worry about clearing out semen is actually redundant because we have wet dreams and our bodies naturally "clean the pipes". Wet dreams are not relapses. They're actually signs of good progress.
    2. Masturbation is a selfish form of pleasure, for me at least.
    3. If you don't masturbate, your brain won't get used to your hand, thus making actual sex feel WAY more pleasurable. Don't you want that? To be able to pleasure a woman and make her feel insanely good, then finish off also feeling amazing together?
    4. Since the majority of people here are PMO addicts, masturbation, later on, could reactivate old neural pathways that are linked to PMO. This is very bad because it might heighten the craving for a PMO binge or a relapse. Now from what The Peace Warrior said, this is also about your state of mind. But realistically speaking I doubt the majority of people here can MO without fantasy. There's bound to be some form of fantasizing going on.
    In the end, it's all up to you. But my goal is to rewire, recover and gain much more sensitivity and wire my pleasure to vaginal intercourse. This way I can please my partner, then myself and have amazing sex each time since it's going to be my only form of release, and also a meaningful one :)

    Cheers!
     
    Deleted Account, Jul 10, 2017
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  8. Jul 10, 2017 #8
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    This will lead to old habit.
    Then need to start again this reboot..hehehe
     
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  9. Jul 10, 2017 #9
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    Yup! That's why we shouldn't masturbate. Although as you can see from the votes, a lot of these rebooters are still clinging on to this "safety net", so to speak. I'm not trying to be rude, but it's going to be harder this way.
     
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  10. Jul 10, 2017 #10
    w95chris

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    Some people feel like they need to masturbate again while some other do not.There is no right or wrong here only what each and everyone thinks is right.If you are cured then in that case you can try it otherwise not by a longshot. I believe it is all about moderation.Take alcohol for example.If you drink every now and then then you enjoy it and you feel good but if you need to drink in order to feel good then you get the point.

    I think that it was a wise choice creating this thread because there are a lot of opinions here and that is the point.Some people may be into masturbating again while some other not.It is all a matter of perspective
     
    w95chris, Jul 10, 2017
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  11. Jul 10, 2017 #11
    FormerFapaholic

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    No way. I feel like sh!t everytime I masturbate. Mentally, physically and emotionally drained. Save my semen and ejaculate for the intimate moment with that special woman.
     
    FormerFapaholic, Jul 10, 2017
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  12. Jul 10, 2017 #12
    tol5530619

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    Same here lol
     
    tol5530619, Jul 10, 2017
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  13. Jul 10, 2017 #13
    I WILL QUIT

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    Masturbate after the 90 days yes fap no
     
    I WILL QUIT, Jul 10, 2017
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