I really need to stop this crap.

You cannot love your girl and porn at the same time, so you gotta choose. Best to choose the former.

 

@brett alphonso
You can brother. And you are quitting.
You have already taken the first step by joining here.
It means a lot. I have myself seen improvements by visiting this site and reading things, helping others, getting helped by others...all this bi-directional support will eventually make you so super strong, you won't even believe. Just stay active here and one day you will be sharing your success story just like many others have already done.

You are super lucky as your girl trust you, understand you and ready to stand with you. That's all you need brother...That's all it takes...Just stay calm and keep holding her hand

All my best wishes to you...!!!!! Just believe in your strength...

 

You can do it. Set up your tracker and see your progress day by day. Make the decision to put this behind you. You are luckier than many here. You have a girl who is supporting you. Focus on her and put the other crap out of your life for good.

Good luck.

 

Good luck. And DO set up your PMO tracker. It is amazing how much of a psychological boost that one little number can give you.

ANH

 

PMO = Porn Masturbation Orgasm. The PMO tracker is the device which counts your streak - you will see a number above many people's signature. Have a good look around this site, particularly the info tab on the home page and your own profile and then set up your PMO tracker. Good luck!

 

i sense your love is still there for her which is why you are willing to change for her. May i ask brett, that when you fap to porn, you feel de-energized, unmotivated mentally and less connected to your girlfriend because you really desire to express your love to her and share connecting bonding experiences? Can you tell me if this is what's happening for you?

 

New here as well and wanting to get plugged in and set up the fap counter.