Do escorts check ID?

Exactly. Something that sounds like "I lost my virginity paying for it." Plus, you did pay for sex with a human being, which doesn't sound bad - until you realise the humiliation of the other human being, and you being a willing and conscious part in it. Ask 99.99% of prostitutes if they like their job - I'm sure many would argue it ruined and fucked up their life and made them unable to appreciate and trust men.

If you were filthy rich, wouldn't the abundance of prostitutes be the same as the abundance of porn today?

 

I can't stop you from seeing one. So I'll say just don't marry her.

 

Man, if I knew the value of self discipline and control when I was your age I wouldnt be here.
The problem with porn and prostitutes is that it seems all very attractive from the outside but once you find yourself in there it will feel awful.
Let me tell yoy in advance how long your encounter with the prostitute will last, I would say from the moment you meet her to the moment you leave less tgan 20 minutes if youre lucky. Her business is to finish you off as quick as she can so she can attend to another client. This will leave you even hornier, frustrated and wanting more.

My advice, steer into the skid, go against what your body wants until you get yourself a girlfriend who is your age willing to explore her sexuality with you. Be a nice guy, be understated, be interesting and you will find a nice wholesome girl that you can satisfy and get satisfaction ftom.

Dont fall into the trap of porn or prostitution or you will find yourself like me in your 30s and still fighting hard to get out ov that horrible trap

 

I think you have a lot of energy that needs to be vented out, how about going to a gym, a bike ride or a run and then think about it. I would say meeting a girl your age is definitely better than a hooker but at the same time try not to be so selfish and think only about yourself. Try to think about that poor girl who you will break her heart if she doesnt break yours depending on what she wants. One thing to remember, treat others the way you want to be treated

 

Damn OP you need to learn how to listen...

Everything that needed to be said has already been said, hopefully you can learn something before you ruin your life and then in a few years you'll be the one warning people not to pay for escorts.

 

You're 17 ... a lot of people loses viriginity at 17, 18, 19, 20 ... ect.

It's the time to find a healthy sexual and/or sentimental relationship with a girl if you're so desperate to have sex.

If you loses viriginity with an escort ... it will follow you all your life ... when GFs, wife, friends ect. will ask you the question "How was you're first time" in the future. You will feel shamefull and ugly.

If you loses viriginity with an escort, you will not be able to like the "real girls" and you'll be prisonner of a certain point of view of sex.

This point of view will gives you 2 addictions : addiction of prostitution (so you will lose a lot of money) addiction with Porn (because Porn is the little sister of prostitution ...) or both.

You'll become a prisonner of what you done in first place.

Do not be so rationnal. Porn and sex industries want you to think about sex like it's a product. It's way more than that. Real and healthy sex is a poetic thing when you're with the right person, not a product for some customer.

I know there is a lot of symbolic violence in the Boys/girls relationships, especially at your age. We're living in a society of concurrence, and it applies to seduction ! But prostitution is even worst and violent than that.

So blaming how seduction works as an excuse to go into prostitution is like blaming wars and then shoot your neighbor in the head. There is no logic on that.

If you have already succeed to not masturbate on Porn, you have already done something amazing. Do not break all you efforts on some escort that will not make you happy ....

 

Don't lose your viginity to a hooker. Jerk off all you want if you are that horny. Prostitution is very dangerous and illegal.

 

How about you learn to not let your emotions control your life!? That seems like a better avenue to go. If you learn now to embrace discomfort, pain, and hardships, then the better off you will be in life. All of us addicts are people who've let their emotions enslave/control them. Now that we're in recovery we're learning we don't have to scratch every itch. We don't have to run from every uncomfortable situation, and that more often than not our bearing these hardships is where our health and growth will be found.

You're trying to run from the very thing (adversity) that will build you into a strong and successful person.

As one author put it "children and dogs allow their emotions to rule their life and that's not the only thing they have in common. They also both shit on the floor."

Self-control is what separates us from animals, so learn to build self-control. Embrace the challenges which fortify it.

Peace.

 

We already dealt with him in another thread, this is his second, he just states what he wants and doesn't take note of anyone else s opinion on it, he keeps saying NoFap isn't the answer, so I ask OP, why are you here? You seem to like to make a statement and set it in stone like you made up your mind before making the post, so if you already have your mind made up on all this stuff, and you think nofap is a waste of time, than there's only two possibilities. 1: Your just trying to annoy everyone by asking for opinions, even know you don't want any and made up your mind. Or 2: You actually have a small part deep within you that is trying to get you to stop this madness and just give up sex all together until your more mature and ready for it.

Either way I wish you the best of luck, I don't wish to get sucked into another one of these threads, so good day, God bless.

/Prodigal.

 

Bro I am 22 ,have been where you are,done that more than dozen times(at ages 17,18 but I have been away from it for more than 3 yrs) in Kamathipura,Mumbai India ,these escorts and prostitutes are just not correct way for healthy sexual life ,they just want money quickly wank you up without letting you to fuck them much and finish you off for the next client ,its darker side they really hate you want to pass you their STDs as counter sex,instead focus on your studies achieve better degree and aim for your career as you are in your prime of life won't get this moment ever so don't waste your energy and control your urges,stay self motivated away from all this PMO shit, instead have a gf.

 

Guys just stop replying to him, he doesn't want our advice, he made up his mind in the last thread we abandoned.

 

You can be aromantic and be disgusted by the exploitation of girls for money, but anyway ......

 

No, I came to your threads hoping to help you, but you don't want our help.