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Your success story

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Amar_Avinash, Jul 31, 2017.

  1. Jul 31, 2017 #1
    Amar_Avinash

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    Most of us here are not having any vision of the future. How would life be without fap and importantly without nofap. No worries about nofap, because abstinence has become a natural state for you. Having a vision of the future is important as it will support us during our journey. So keeping this idea in mind, I am writing my success story. Please take the time to write yours and read it as frequently as possible. They said fake it until you make it. So right now, right an ideal fake script for your life and have believe it is your life. Beware, fake it until you make it sounds easy, but your mind will keep challenging you. So the goal is to first break the state of inertia your mind is in. Disrupt. Destroy. Pull out of the comfort zone. Even now you will have a inner voice that says that this is a good idea, I will do it later. But if you cannot write a page of your success vision, how will you get there.

    Success vision
    1 September
    I am finally free from nofap. Abstinence has become a state of mind. Everything is clear. I can study much better. Breaking my addiction has given me more power. I am more socially confident. But this is the beginning. So there is a lot of work to do. I have to exercise even though it is difficult due to the damage I caused to my body. I have to continue studying. I have got interested in many different things but I have to stick to my principles. I feed my mind with positive information daily. My life has not seen a miracle due to nofap. Only my body has recovered from this. But procrastination, carelessness and stuff is there. I have to break them. But I know it is nothing before the addiction I had.
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    I pledge to read this daily, everyday till 1 September. I also believe that what I have written is achievable.
     
    Amar_Avinash, Jul 31, 2017
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  2. Jul 31, 2017 #2
    black_coyote

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    Nice idea! Here goes my vision!

    September 12

    The day I turn 23. I wake up early, feeling thankful for the night's rest. I make my bed and get on with my routine. My eyes are bright, shining. My skin is healthy, my body supple, my being, relaxed. I'm living a crap free life. Not a noanosecond of crap! I'm able to hold eye contact with people. I'm more open to life. I'm okay being with myself. I'm centered. I don't seek for love, I find love in what I do and I do it with all my heart. I take more risks, I take chances, I gamble with life and enjoy life in all its beauty! I understand people instead of judging them. I move towards my life goals with laser focus!

    The beginning.

    It'd be good to read this again!

    Thanks again @Amar_Avinash for your time and insight!
     
    black_coyote, Jul 31, 2017
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  3. Jul 31, 2017 #3
    dangon master

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    hello amar
    i m sumer from india
    just want to thank you for this idea bro
    this idea was awesome here i write my fake it until you make it
    7 october 2017
    i completed my 90days and i m happy enough you cant imagine my happiness its like i achieved my life biggest goal which i was dying to achieve i love myself now as i m i believe in me i m not affraid of any problem now i can solve it coz i solved my life thoughest problem yes i know its begining but i happy for this begining
    i do what i want to i have self control and know what i want to do there are many talent in mee i want explore those let the world know who m i
    yes i completed this without any women i have descipline on my eyes and toughts
    first month was worst but i didnt give up i was stick to my rules and to nofap i was committed and i m still
    i talk to people diretly with confident no scripting or manupulating
    i will read this daily till 7 october
     
    dangon master, Jul 31, 2017
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  4. Jul 31, 2017 #4
    Amar_Avinash

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    Congratulations on taking the very first step. Remember it will be hard to break the inertia, but once you get going, you will make the vision a reality. Anytime you get the urge, or feel demotivated, read your vision. I have stored this in my mobile as well.
     
    Amar_Avinash, Jul 31, 2017
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  5. Aug 2, 2017 #5
    dangon master

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    even i have stored this in my phone and yes mood swing is common these days bcoz brain is getting rewired but there is a light once we complete 90days i want to experiance that joy of achieving my life biggest goal
     
    dangon master, Aug 2, 2017
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