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LGBTQ Fapstronauts

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Aray192, Aug 4, 2014.

  1. Aray192

    Aray192 Fapstronaut

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    I was just curious if there where other lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans*, or queer people taking the challenge. I know it can be helpful for some people in the community to know other LGBTQ people to talk about stuff with. I know personally it is a little easier to talk about gay stuff with gay people and not be as concerned with being judged.

    I thought it could be good to start a thread where LGBTQ people could discuss things specific to us (if they exist) or at least talk about stuff in a place that might be more comfortable for some people. So LGBTQ people sound off and if you have stuff that you would like to discuss regarding what can be our specific challenges lets get make this a place to talk about it.

    I know I have found trouble balancing my challenge with LGBTQ specific media because it tends to be so sexualized and sometimes just watching and LGBTQ specific movies or checking New Now Next News makes me question if I am breaking my challenge in someway.
     
  2. DWizZy

    DWizZy Fapstronaut

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    I just had a dream about a thin, muscular, male, olympic swimmer who was abducted by aliens. He actually talked about trophs in the dream, talking very slowly, as if he didn't think I was going to get it. Prior to nofap, I didn't have homo-erotic imagery in my dreams. The less I fap, the more gay dreams I have, some including actual sex with men. I also have started smiling and blushing in the mirror when noticing how clear nofap makes my skin. In short, I suspect my porn addiction has been my way of keeping myself in denial about who I am. I've spent my life only ever watching straight porn, while sleeping with as many women as I could, emulating the toughest porn moves, like smacking them around. Meanwhile, many people point out that when I walk I tend to sort of sashay about, pinning my legs together, in a decidedly un-masculine manner. So nofap is making me suspect that I've been using porn to stay in denial about who I am. My pent up sexual energies all seem to pull me towards thin, athletic men, and away from grouchy, judgmental women with their endless stupid yapping about nothing. I don't know, though. I just don't know.
     
    Last edited: Aug 4, 2014

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