Possible Triggers: Vagina Preferences and implications

Not in my case. I never saw any porn until I was 41.

 

I suspect that my husband was similar in terms of his preferences.

 

My husband was very happy googling photos of women in tight clothes or topless on Google.

 

I wonder if you hold the same view towards facial hair and hairstyles? Haha

 

Yeah - I don't like a landing strip on my head! LMFAO!

 

Well played, sir.

 

Here are the three things about women and body image that drive me insane.

1. The worst critics of other women's bodies are other women by far. Guys don't notice 99.9999 percent of the suppossed flaws women see on other women.

2. Stop blaming the media. Nobody on TV, in movies, in magazines, online etc looks like that in real life. They have wardrobe, hair, makeup, 27 camera angles, editing rooms, etc. The acctresss, models, even actors and musicians themselves usually will say damn that's me. It's an illusion not reality. Barbie is a doll. If you treat it as a doll and not give it significance as some symbol of global oppression then guess what it's a doll. Barbie the doll can't even stand up.

3. Men understand fantasy and reality are not the same. If I truly expected Jennifer Lopez to knock on my door in lingerie the first place people should call is the psychiatric hospital. It's not going to happen. We are not that delusional. Why get paranoid over a scenario that will never happen ladies? It's impossible. Have you seen us? None of us look like Magic Mike.

 

Research shows that after men look at porn their partners appear less attractive. Not everyone knows about photoshop/camera angles/make up etc.

 

You can't. And that's the problem with having a high number of sexual partners. If a guy conditions himself to a certain tightness and sets that up as his end-all-be-all of sexual satisfaction, then he basically have to have sex with every woman he dates just to see if she's the right 'fit'. She might be fantastic in every other way, and then when they finally get to the bedroom ... wah-wah. I think everyone deserves the right to have their own preferences ... but I just think about all the women who give up sex and then get dismissed because they weren't tight enough. That would be a brutal pill to swallow. Of course, I know it works both ways--there are certainly women out there who've dismissed a guy because he wasn't packing enough heat.

I'll say this ... if a woman is devoted to a consistent kegel routine, her stock goes way up in my book!

Speak for yourself.

 

I had no clue that "tightness" was a thing. *starts kegels*

 

I don't agree with this at all. Men develop ED because they get so conditioned by artificial bodies that the real thing does nothing for them.

 

I expect a thank-you note from your husband.

 

Of course tightness is a thing!

Lol

 

Dang I feel dehumanized into the first couple sentences of this thread and I don't even have a vagina!

 

Any guy that can't separate the two is a dope. Don't worry about the kegels.

 

Apparently my husband is a dope *sigh*

 

Maybe I'm just a genius (sarcasm)

 

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IMO, when it comes to long term relationships, it's really the lips on her head which matter the most. I'm not talking about bj's either, I'm talking about her blowing my mind (mj) with her conversational skills.

A fellow fan of the tightans.

 

Are all virgins tight? Im a virgin asking out of interest