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Trying to cure Delayed Ejaculation

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by care4ameatball, Aug 6, 2017.

  1. care4ameatball

    care4ameatball Fapstronaut

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    hi everyone. I'm 18 years old, and I've been having sex since last year. Now for a while, I had a girlfriend, and the sex was usually really good. But there was always one constant that tore away my confidence and gave me tons of anxiety. Now, most of the time, I wouldn't bust. At all. I could go for hours and sometimes it just wouldn't happen. Quite embarrassing and while I enjoyed pleasuring my girlfriend immensely, I could never seem to get that pleasure of orgasm too often. Now I don't know if this is common, but when I get head, I usually feel as if I bust more often, but I still had that same problem where I couldn't quite often. Anyways, I recently met this girl and we had sex, and again I couldn't bust. The thing is, she wants to have sex again, and while I'm all for it, I don't wanna be not able to bust the next time. She said it was weird and to be honest it made me insecure. Now, I don't know what to attribute this to. I do masturbate quite hard when I do, but I feel as if my anxiety about it affects it just as much. Does anyone have any tips and tricks to help stop DE completely and how to get rid of the insecurity and anxiety I have about it. Thank you
     
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  2. Drew140

    Drew140 Guest

    Stop masturbating for a minimum of 2 weeks. No sex for 2 weeks either. It's probably death grip but you are young so you will reboot faster. If you have a girlfriend there is a no need to masturbate. Save your dick for her.
     
  3. Pirlo23

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    You have to stop PMO, don't touch yourself. Your sensitivity will start to come back, it took me 41 days of Monk Mode (no masturbation and no sex) to do it. But everyone is different and you might get really sensitive in just 2 weeks. Remember, we all fail at some point so dont be to tough on yourself. Set goals, do 10 days with NoFap first, then 15, then 20, then 30, then 40, then 60 and see if it helps. Im sure it will since it has cured a lot of people like me who suffer from Delated Ejaculation.

    There should be an official delayed ejaculation thread, since it's a very important issue and it's awful.
     
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  4. care4ameatball

    care4ameatball Fapstronaut

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    I'm determined to do this
     
  5. Pirlo23

    Pirlo23 Fapstronaut

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    Sex is useful to rewire the brain, however if you fear it might make you relapse then avoid it. Wait until you hit the flatline before having sex, there's less of a risk of returning to masturbation if you have sex while on the flatline. For me it takes 15 days until I flatline (stop having strong urges to masturbate).
     
  6. DocT

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    going through same now
     

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