Tips for Treating DE?

My fiancé has DE and has not oed from sex since high school (he's 47). Have you attempted sex? You won't really know until you try but I'm willing to guess you will have significantly increases sensitivity. Mine has done 90'days and still can't O from imtercourse but can from my hand and mouth which he could not before. He tried all of these creams etc and none of it worked. The skin tends to heal on its own if you leave it be. I would like to see studies on these over the counter creams but I looked at the ingredients and saw nothing proven to help. But it could be psychological. If you think it's working what's the harm. By the way congrats on your sucess!!!!

 

Stick with your no PM reboot, that's the best thing to do. Some guys will need more time than others. If you want to try some oils or creams, get some coconut oil from your grocery store. Coconut oil will likely do the same as the "special" oils and creams, but at a fraction of the cost.

 

Possibly the most difficult part is getting out of your head. If you're thinking "I really want to O, i really want to O" it becomes 100 times more difficult.

Learn to do it without expectation of O. You'll still want to (of course you will) but go in with absolutely no expectation. Learn to enjoy sex without it. It will, hopefully, eventually happen. I took about a month and I was able to O close to 100% of the time. After 3-4 months I'm even sometimes having to slow myself down to make sure she Os first.

Anyway, my point is maybe forget the creams etc for now and focus on psychological repair. If you can repair yourself without artificial aids, you'll never need to wean yourself off those aids!

 

Best of luck. Its totally worth it. Honestly, sex is better than i ever thought it could be. My PMO addiction seems stupif in retrospect.

 

You could try maca root powder and horny goat weed.
I say this as someone with severe DE and a history of antidepressants, which affect ejaculatory latency in a negative way.
I can't tell you if it's just NoFap alone that has worked for me, or some supplements too. But on the second day I took horny goat weed I M'd 3 times and it took me 2-3 mins a pop. That had never happened ever in the last twenty years.
So if abstinence alone isn't getting you all the way there, try it?

 

Try L Arginine

 

I take the capsules

 

L-arginine appears to affect erection quality well. I don't think it decreases DR much of at all.