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Hello!
I am from Ukraine but have similar problem as other people here.
I turned 25 but still was virgin 2 weeks ago. Since then I've tried 3 times to make sex with two different girls and failed.

I didn't feel any spiritual excitement when I saw real naked body of a girl, my dick was also pretty soft. I didn't physically enjoy neither blow job or vaginal contact. All I could feel is just some motion. No pleasure at all! With the same outcome she could rub my knee! At that moment I thought that it happened because it was my first time, girl didn’t really try and I simply needed more experience.
Second try with girl #2 was same bad. Weak erection, not able to perform vaginal sex and no pleasure.
Third try with girl #2 was better, maybe because at that moment I looked through nofap and other pages. I didn't watch porn and didn't masturbate for 5 days before that attempt. Erection was stronger, but still not good enough to make normal sex. General sexual excitement was very weak (but at least it was present).

That persuaded me that I am a victim of porn-induced erectile dysfunction. Real sex turned to be boring and disappointing for me.
So today I quit porn and masturbation. Lets see if it can help. I guess, it may take at least 3 months to reboot.
The questions are: when will be the moment of total recovery? How can I tell? Should I try to make sex from time to time (like once a month) to show my brain new alternative and check the progress? Or its better to be patient?

 

And one more... Yes, I've been masturbating for 13 years at least, have been watching porn for 8-9 years, drifted to dirty sections like domination/abuse, zoofilia (sometimes), etc. But I still was able to get hard and masturbate on normal amatour porn. I used to masturbate on weekends only (although, a lot), but during business days I abstained from PMO easilly.
I wasn't a hardcore everyday fapper! Couldn't imagine that things went so bad for me until my first intercourse!

 

Day 30+, I tried to have sex with some hooker and relapsed browsing that web-page. I thought that I was ready to have sex. I was horny, had morning wood, was able to get hard without porn or even thoughts about sex/girls. And then I relapsed... I got so exited that was on the verge of orgasm and helped myself with hand. First sweet orgasm after 5 weeks of abstinence...
3 days after I went to some girl, trid to have sex and it didnt work out YET ANOTHER TIME! To be honest, I expected that, but also had hope it would be better this time. No, it didn't! Btw, girl was also 3* out of five.

Now I have to start from the beginning! This time I will be more precautious.

 

I did it simple as others: no masturbation, no porn for 30+ days. I wasn't able to completely clear my mind from thoughts about girls, but didn't think about them all the time.
I felt a bit disturbed as I didn't experience any flatline. Moreover, I got to have morning erections more often. I also noticed one thing: I was able to get 95% hard just turning my body left-right, so dick will wave (that makes it 50% hard) + straining certain muscles (not abdominals, but close) I could make it 95% hard. And thats without any porn, contact with hands or erotic thoughts.

Thats why it seemed to me that I already COULD DO that.

And then - things explained in my previous comment happened...