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Wow, last night was intense

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by APCIA, Aug 8, 2014.

  1. APCIA

    APCIA Fapstronaut

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    So last night a couple of my friends came over. Than one of them left I was left alone with my friend who was drunk and really wanted to have sex with me. She is married to a good friend of mine (!!!) and we did have an affair a few months ago. I HATE myself for doing this, she cheated on her husband and I cheated on my friend doing that.

    When it would happen a few months ago I would try to stop it, but I was too weak and too lusty to do it.

    Yesterday when she was here she basically tried to force me to have sex with her but I was able to say no. I think that if I wasn't on day 25 into my hard mode challenge and with the right will and attitude that things should change I would never be able to do it.

    She was REALLY offended that I don't want to have sex with her, I tried to explain to her a countless amount of times how wrong this is but she didn't care so much.

    Took a mighty shower afterwards
     
  2. manolo578

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    Brother, good for you. It's great to see you changing your views on sexuality and respecting your friend like that. Keep up the good work and keep that strong willpower.
     
  3. Hausdorff

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    You're a strong man. I don't know if I could have done it, you should be proud of yourself.
     
  4. sasukexx17

    sasukexx17 Fapstronaut

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    damn bro you got balls of steel haha
     
  5. thepersonathome

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    Good for you, you made the right choice. Porn will often warp our minds. Think of how the majority of the porno scenario begin.
    Girl: my husband is gone let's fuck.
    guy: no we shouldn't
    girl: why not you know you wanna
    guy: ok
    when you watch porn your mind believes that what you see in the videos is ok to do in real life. and so having an affair becomes acceptable.
    Thanks to nofap you put your mind before your lust and gain a certain sense of calmness in your thoughts and morals and a sense of control in your actions. I think that is why you were able to say no. Congratulations on resisting! In my honest opinion you made the right choice this time.
     
  6. IGY

    IGY Guest

    You have my total respect for holding to your commitment to your hard mode challenge and your morals about not cuckolding your friend.
     
  7. Tom_meadow

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    some manly decision, respect
     
  8. MelancholyWeightlifter

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    If only more people had the self control you did! Good job my friend.
     
  9. APCIA

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    Thanks for all the props

    But I'm still killing myself over this, because 6 months ago we did it. I guess everything happens for a reason and I'm glad that now I have the power to resist
     
  10. A B

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    Simply putting, yours was a serious departure from objectification.
     
  11. MelancholyWeightlifter

    MelancholyWeightlifter Distinguished Fapstronaut

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    It does at least show the power of how cutting out PMO can lead to greater self control. Our past mistakes may haunt us but our only choice is to improve. Maybe coming clean would be best. I can tell you from experience the guilt will eat you alive until you do. Unfortunately we can't escape the consequences of our actions but we can at least find peace. Just my humble opinion.
     
  12. APCIA

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    Yea I'm starting to reap the benefit of nofap and it's amazing.

    if I come clean with her husband it might make me feel better, but it might ruin her life. so I won't do it.
     
  13. Ferdydurke

    Ferdydurke Fapstronaut

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    Even if you did cheat on him with her months ago it's still a good thing you refused this time. At least I think so, good job!
     
  14. NotALoserAnymore

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    You have to be proud of yourself for this mate: you have done a favour to yourself, your friend and his girlfriend. Keep going in this way.
     
  15. vlaw

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    You are really strong. I would have fallen.
     
  16. MelancholyWeightlifter

    MelancholyWeightlifter Distinguished Fapstronaut

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    True...I suppose that's her prerogative. I can imagine it sucks for her to live a lie like that. I guess it's true what they say about ignorance...
     
  17. thefapnoob

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    man, Thats some self control bro!! respect. I wish i could reach your level of control some day. Oh btw, were you drunk too?
     
  18. Stand

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    I would tell him. Just as a bro. Not fair on him.

    BUT, you did so well not falling for it again. Proud of you brother.
     
  19. CountryDude

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  20. brevity1

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    That's amazing. Good work.
     

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