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Penis so desensitized Can't get it up

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Marwan97, Aug 24, 2017.

  1. Marwan97

    Marwan97 Fapstronaut

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    Hi everybody!!

    As you can read from the title masturbating has led to my penisn so desensitized that when my gf comes I always say excuses to get out of having sex. When I masturbate I edge out and don't ejaculate while masturbating, also porn is a minor problem but still not to be underestimated. When I Masturbate I usually have no trouble of getting it up with just pictures of girls. Please can anyone help me and tell me if I have a chance of having sex with my girlfriend in 4 days without touching my penis? Thanks
     
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  2. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and sometimes challenge you but not judge you.

    Noticeable progress will most likely not appear in 4 days.


    The enemy is here to steal, kill and destroy. What are your current strategies for combating the enemy called PMO?
     
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  3. pmojay

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    4 days? I'm not so sure man. If anything just don't masturbate for those 4 days and see what happens. I too am in your same boat and currently formulating a plan to combat this problem. Stay updated with me so you can join the journey when the time comes...
     
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  4. Marwan97

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    To be honest, I don't have a plan to fight PMO, especially M. I usually masturbate 3-4 days. And I wish I had a good plan. Any ideas how long the process takes? Or it depends?
     
  5. Marwan97

    Marwan97 Fapstronaut

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    Sure, seriously not being to perform in bed with your woman and not satisfying her is the worst thing you could feel alive
     
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  6. pmojay

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    True, the thing is that I was able to have an erection while having sex, maybe 80% hard. But I felt absolutely nothing. And once we went to me laying down and her on top, my erection went away....Start getting your tongue game up while you reboot though. She'll definitely appreciate you still caring about her needs, and if you do it good she won't mind not having a penis for a while.
     
  7. Hi @Marwan97 , welcome to NoFap

    This is a long fight, forget about 4 days. This is wishful thinking, my friend.

    It is a big step if you can understand what is triggering your urges, because this will allow you to be awake and kill those urges as soon as they appear.

    I recommend you to create your own "Emergency Toolbox" with readings that can be handy to read when you start feeling urges to screw up.
    I can share this post with you with my own Emergency Toolbox, it helped me a lot during the first few months, i had them in my cell and read them every time I started falling down:

    https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.p...y-first-320-days-of-reboot.62938/#post-473978

    I wrote some tips in this post that perhaps will help you too:

    http://NoFap.com/forum/index.php?threads/tips-that-helped-me-to-start-my-reboot.46617/#post-330318
    You can watch some interesting videos which are also very helpful in this post:
    http://nofap.com/forum/index.php?th...t-help-me-a-lot-during-my-reboot.39774/page-2

    I also suggest you to read "Breaking the Cycle" by George Collins, it is a must-read if you are serious about getting rid of this addiction.
    To get more focus and feel happier with life I recommend you to start doing meditation.. I have been using an App called Headspace for the last two months which is great if you have never meditated before. The first 10 sessions are free if you want to give a try. I used to feel a bit depressed or feeling without energy to start new projects in my life, and meditation has helped me a lot with this.

    Last but not least, I would strongly recommend you to take the NoFap Academy course if you can afford it. The course is great but the best value are the weekly video calls with @alexander (the creator of NoFap and NoFap Academy) and Mark Queppet, where you can chat with them in real life and listen to other guys's stories and problems too.

    I hope that all this helps you to fight this shitty addiction.
    Let's keep on fighting

    Fercho
     
  8. Marwan97

    Marwan97 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks man i would totally take a look at all the things you listed :D
     
  9. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

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