Comments on Profile Post by hollinger

I do feel a lot more relaxed and calm though, still I know it's a bad fuck-up.

I need to make a promise that next time I rather take a prostitute than watch porn, at least gain some experience

I loathe myself

I am sorry you felt empty inside. I hope you will get right back on the No PMO train. I would stick to porn over prostitute though... you will gain experience from someone paid to make you feel like you are doing it right and could also catch a disease.

New goal is a week without touching my dick whatsoever and not watching porn.

I’ve been there, man. I just reset too...but it’s all good! We live and we learn. Take what you can from this and keep moving! You’re doing good! :)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1h2hQwK7sJw - even jordan peterson believes in it, immense respect for him

Thanks for the support guys!

"pleasure with no responsibility is parasitical" and it's an easy way out

I love Jordan Peterson! Godspeed my friend

"This video helps me when I'm having relapse urges. It's almost like, I don't want to disappoint Jordan."

The pain of loneliness on nofap is forcing me to change

I saw that comment lol

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HHC_RjLKzqM - also good video, porn is not the issue, you just need vision of life that is more compelling and counter vision that frightens you.

just understanding that it's the way for a better life, imagining myself fapping at the age of 25 having fulfilled none of my potential does look frightening.

overall porn is just meditation to the real problem, which is the need of approval and intimacy, but fear of rejection

therefore it kills real self-expression and ends up just as something to numb your mind - okay enough of the theory

The real problem may be fearing rejection but it is also because we have become impatient. I forgot the time it takes to court a girl that I am interested in so it has hurt my relationships because I always try to get intimate really quickly but it doesn't work like that. I should have to work for it though. That way I appreciate it when I get it. This is my experience anyways.

Yeah I agree, I start using tinder and get into the dating world again.

Sexual transmutation is a good term - transferring your sexual energy into a form of creative self-expression. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=bIviJ3cFiok

Love the videos! I already have desires to be successful so I can't wait to see how much I desire it in the future!

I started a forum so we can post the videos we find. Will you list the one's you have found that have been helpful? I already did the one above.

Forum Name:
For Guys: List your motivational Anti-Porn and NoFap Videos for all to see and stay Motivated

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xtuIjcga7E4 - I just watched this one, good easy watch. Andrew Hales is funny.

Main good point was that nofap is like core habit, other good habits will follow then. And I figured out my main problems, first one being addiction to comfort.

Today was a good day though, even scored a goal in football match, some masculinity coming back.

And second one being poor social skills, all you need is confidence: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hPb0xocQ-KM&t=558s

Heck yeah nice work. A win increase the testosterone so be careful ;) I will go through the videos tomorrow and post them to the forum. If they are motivational to nofap go ahead and post if you want. Thanks for sharing. Have a great day tomorrow

Thanks, man. You too! Second one is not about nofap, just one guys spontaneous train of thought, but I think first one fits.

https://christinehassler.com/2014/10/are-you-addicted-to-thinking/

Peace of mind truly comes the instant we stop seeking the answer. The instant we stop wanting a resolution. The instant we stop investing so much energy into figuring something out. - good point

Uncertainty is a powerful, often painful, but necessary teacher. When we buy into the misunderstanding that our peace of mind comes from knowing the answer or figuring out the solution to a problem, we suffer from over-thinking and obsessing.

nice. The problem with us guys is we are fixers and think we need to have all the answers. When we give up this notion and admit we don't know, we open the door to learning the answers.

I definitely think way too much but at the same time I don't think (pun) that I am thinking effectively. I didn't get a chance to check out the blog. I may check it out later but I appreciate your desire and hunger to transform into the butterfly you are becoming. A manly butterfly ;)