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I mean it's not really called "the urge", but it's about to form. I have to have the right thinking at the beginning. If i don't, but, there will never an "if". No, and never.
I'm no one but the one who is able to control me. To control myself means to control my life. I will do, i can do anything if i put all of my effort in it. I proved to myself in the past. There were, some failures, but that's a different story of my life. In this journey, I must stay discipline at all cost. If i don't, I won't and can't control my own self. Thus, there's nothing i can do for this life.
Cmon Hal, man up. Now is your time to fight this obsession, this addiction. You wanna give up now? Do you want something else to have control over your life? YOU control your life, noone else does! You decide whether you give up, or whether you fight on! Get dressed and fight this addiction!
That's why i said it's hard. It's a really thin line between "love yourself" and "objectify yourself", since "love yourself" about the invisible inside physical system function, "objectify yourself" about the visible outside body which it's inevitable not to see. So, there has to be a way to be aware and conscious about this.
See it like this: you are pretty and sexy, but your addiction wants to objectify you when you would just find yourself nice to look at without it. One is craving, the other is admiring. One wants to possess, the other just appreciates and moves on
It's hard but it's not impossible. Nothing can stop me to fight against this. So same to you, @Sir Wankalot , don't just look outside someone. It's a mediocre thing that your eyes trick you. Something we have to take control on.
"One wants to possess, the other just appreciates and moves on". Yesss that's it. You say itttttt. That's the key that i can't think of. yessss thank youuuu. That's brilliant, so brilliant. Sometimes you reject yourself, pls remind that you help me a lot, you can fight anything. I'm sure.
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