Comments on Profile Post by hollinger

Did not cum so all good, energy is there and that small relapse is forgiven.

I do feel lonely still, I actually had a chance today to say nice things to a girl, sexualize the conversation, but I'm either scared or not sure how to do it properly.

Watching porn often comes after some failures with women, an easy way out, right now it was a quick escape too.

However I do feel many changes during my time on nofap, I've gotten more confident and overthink less pointless small things, still a long way to go.

Not only failures with women, but overall too, they say after all it's your precious time you waste, but I feel I'd waste it anyways. Still I waste it much less than before and also fear less.

,Also I've gotten to understand the fact that sometimes less is more, you don't need to understand everything and tell people everything that comes to your mind. Each person you approach differently. It's like a game of chess, but in real life.

I am talking daily with my crush, but I feel I'm doing it too impulsively and still stuff back what I want to say too much. Place in social hierarchy is still low and lack of serotonine because of that. Still I'm capable to have conversations now with people and learn. Feel free to answer too, I'm not here to talk alone and like everyone's opinion.

Not deleting a single comment here, everything I say has some meaning to it, I write the way I'd talk, because talking is where I still lack skill, I don't run out of things to say, that's only when you block certain thoughts during the conversation. Otherwise you'll always have a stream of consciousness telling you what to say/do. Successful people trust their consciousness.

Actually I have some weird similar thoughts everyday, obsessions about "less fear" and everything, I feel in a way it's already just a stupid habit and allowing yourself to use different words and focus on others perspective really ends it. Depression in my case is a thought out thing, with NoFap, socializing and training it fades entirely. Everything else is up to me.

Alot of the greatest in this world made it to the top because they came back from failures.
I like the way you think, the way you talk, so I guess I will you at the top my man

i dont know should I talk about nofap to parents and girls, it's just kind of thing I want to share or say out of fun, but I feel it's too weird. thanks a leaf for encouragement, i try my best in trying to figure things out.

or i try my best in just being me, it's not that easy, but worth to try, trusting yourself in what you say and do, but still doing it with seeming confidence, we're all here for same reason anyways, just talk to strangers, develop kindness and do whatever you want.

just ended my long conversation with parents, i did not block too many thoughts, but still some, and left unsaid certain things, i hate those theoretical moralizing advices, that everyone knows anyway, just say what's on your mind and fuck political correctness. political correctness is for pussies, in order to think you must take the risk of being offensive.

today in bus I was really mad, that why people are not open and why i did not talk to one beautiful stranger, but change becomes with you, so I should make that change first. long story short, fear sucks. and when you understand and feel you dont do something because of fear, you should do it immediately, sometimes its difficult to differentiate: is it fear or you just dont want.