Comments on Profile Post by Halpherisdusfrey

  1. Halpherisdusfrey
    Halpherisdusfrey
    I’ll act like I don’t know. But i’ll talk if there’s something wrong that i realize what he’s trying to hide. I was there, i know it all.
    Sep 21, 2019
  2. Halpherisdusfrey
    Halpherisdusfrey
    There will be a time that people in addiction. If it affects their life, they will find the way to modify.
    Sep 21, 2019
  3. Halpherisdusfrey
    Halpherisdusfrey
    Idk man, i simply see the tabs in his phone, and there was girlcum website. Porn to me now seems ... ughh , pls let me stay away from the stuff.
    Sep 21, 2019
  4. Halpherisdusfrey
    Halpherisdusfrey
    Idk how to talk to him about this stuff. Have to be careful, really.
    Sep 21, 2019
  5. letter
    letter
    One thing that is easier to talk about are the reasons why porn becomes a problem, like loneliness & rejection. If you can’t find a tactful way to approach him on the P subject, you can still be with him in these other parts of life that feed the addiction.
    Sep 21, 2019
  6. Halpherisdusfrey
    Halpherisdusfrey
    I implied P to him but not say it explicitly, he just like bruh.
    Sep 21, 2019
  7. Halpherisdusfrey
    Halpherisdusfrey
    He socializes good, phone full of messages, not like me, kinda isolated and taciturn before. And he hangs out w the other kids that I don’t think they’re good since they share him a digital smoke. It’s like porn to those well socializing people is just a taste to add to their life, not something to feel shame for like those who feel themselves bad like me.
    Sep 21, 2019
  8. Halpherisdusfrey
    Halpherisdusfrey
    @letter so maybe i just left him there until he figures out what numbs his brain day by day. People have to experience porn for a long time to realize that fact. For me, it’s a year, for a boy, idk ? Maybe 5,10 years?? I’ll wait to see what happens
    Sep 21, 2019
  9. letter
    letter
    Sorry to hear that. Yeah, that kind of person can be hard to reach because they think nothing is a big deal.

    If you see him slipping too far, you can stick it to him. You can ask him if porn really is a normal thing, then why is he hiding it? “Hey bro, if this really is okay, why do you act like it is a shameful thing. If this really is okay, just come clean and tell me all about it.”
    Sep 21, 2019
  10. letter
    letter
    Kind of like, “I’m not judging you and I want to understand, but I can’t help but see the harm you’re doing to yourself and I’m not convinced you’re lying to yourself so you believe it’s all okay.”
    Sep 21, 2019
  11. letter
    letter
    *not lying
    Sep 21, 2019
  12. letter
    letter
    Each person is different. I hope he can get out early while he can.
    Sep 21, 2019
  13. Halpherisdusfrey
    Halpherisdusfrey
    @letter thank you for listening, I appreciate that much. If i see he badly behaves, i have to tell him. Because there has to be serious reason for a person to quit that stuff, if their life still goes well with it, I believe they will just turn back to the old path.
    Sep 21, 2019
  14. Halpherisdusfrey
    Halpherisdusfrey
    I’m in Nofap for more than 2 months, though some lapses happened, but i realized and get better in every footstep. It’s really incredible in the will power of this wholesome community that I cannot find in any aspect of my life. But at the same time, people have to realize how severe P is. It’s a progress that can’t bypass any step.
    Sep 21, 2019
  15. letter
    letter
    It’s not easy to see someone hurt themselves, I know that. I wish I had something better to tell ya, but it’s like you said...some things just have to run their course.

    This community is awesome because it is filled with humble people. We’re all here because we know we’ve failed. We need help, we give help.
    Sep 21, 2019
  16. Halpherisdusfrey
    Halpherisdusfrey
    @letter Yeah, let the time be the answer. *sigh*
    Sep 22, 2019