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@Coffee Candy - funny thing is, I didn't even tell her that I have six months. I do feel accepted and she tries to be supportive, but I think that the whole sex addiction thing makes her uncomfortable.
It's hard to tell her the WHOLE truth - that I REALLY want to M in the days after an O, that other women tempt me more, that fantasy get into my head.
Hm. It kinda makes sense. I thought you met her at a SAA and that she dealt with some of the same things..Idk. Maybe my gathered info is wrong or Im getting too in your business. ..but I hope you guys can talk and work through it together some time :)
@Coffee Candy - we actually met in AA (alcohol) but I think I get where she's coming from. I'd be freaked out dating a sex addict, too!
I spilled pretty much everything early on in our dating, but I think it's still really hard for her to really understand it. But, so far at least, she does accept my desire (need) to avoid orgasm.
I don't know what I will do if I ever relapse. That could be really hard to explain.
(or, depending on what happens, it may be something that's better not to tell her?)
I've also been relying sometimes on a chastity device. Eventually she's probably going to have to find out about that . . .
I think she'd be ok with it. But it still worries me.
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