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As I approach 30 days, it is both wonderful and difficult at the same time. Mar 7, 2024

    1. vxlccm
      vxlccm
      3 weeks done is GREAT !!
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    2. vxlccm
      vxlccm
      Glad you posted! My thought is to expand it a little more as: first get motivation, then grow in discipline, but finish with everlasting faith.
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      2. vxlccm
        vxlccm
        "Determination may quake; Motivation may wane; so build Discipline to the edge, where we then make a leap of Faith." --(combined fapstonauts)

        You tell me if that makes sense in your situation.
        Dec 3, 2017
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    3. Roady
      Roady
      Hi Buddy, how are you going?
      1. New Focus
        New Focus
        Hi @Roady. I was not sure anyone would notice my absence.

        I am doing fine, but after my last series of resets, I just felt I needed a break from this place.

        The truth is I have been on boards for 2 decades without any success, so I am just trying to make changes.

        I will be back after I feel the time is right.
        Dec 1, 2017
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      2. Roady
        Roady
        Or course @New Focus. Only you know what you need the best. Sometimes it's better to leave the internet completely. I hope you will going well.
        God bless you buddy.
        Dec 1, 2017
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    4. vxlccm
      vxlccm
      2 weeks! Keep it up, brother. Find strength in daily life. The shallow bubble of yesteryears will collapse on its own. You seek/earn treasures in heaven as you build your marriage and family :)
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    5. vxlccm
      vxlccm
      Hang in there, bro. Yes, we're flawed. Doesn't mean we can't weather the storm and grow better :)
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      2. vxlccm
        vxlccm
        p.s. You *are* getting better by the way. What's the point in journaling unless you're going to go back and SEE that for yourself :)
        Oct 28, 2017
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    6. New Focus
      New Focus
      Making this New Year truly a New Focus.
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    7. Decoder™
      Decoder™
      Outstaning nickname!
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    8. New Focus
      New Focus
      Just trying to hang on to hope.... hope that I can change...
      1. Deleted Account
        Deleted Account
        You can my friend. This stuff is NOT you. You can shake it off and become who you really are. Just keep at it. You are worth it!
        Sep 13, 2015
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      2. weejian
        weejian
        we are all here to support each other,so be confident
        Sep 14, 2015
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    9. WOTL
      WOTL
      Maybe it is time to change your profile message to something like "I have decided to start rising again".
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    10. New Focus
      New Focus
      I am in a bad place...sinking and cannot seem to get out.
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      2. Shadowscholar
        Shadowscholar
        Move out.
        Jul 26, 2015
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      3. WOTL
        WOTL
        A warrior does not drown for falling into the water. It only drowns if he stops swimming. If you believe you are sinking, you will sink. But you can swim out of this and into a better place.
        Aug 11, 2015
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    11. The Eleven
      The Eleven
      Hey. Just wanted to stop in and say I've read most of the posts in question, and I really don't think anyone was offended by your comments about counters. I had a bit of a dust-up with J-Kiwin on the subject recently, and cpf got into it with someone else somewhat less recently, but I really didn't see anything wrong with anything you said and I didn't read anyone's reaction to be upset with you. Just so you know.
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      2. New Focus
        New Focus
        Thanks 11 for taking the time to write this- it means a lot to me. This community is important to me and I felt bad that I may have upset some folks, including you.
        Jun 8, 2015
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