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The only reason I advise not to leave him is because you say he's a great man and a great father, outside of the porn. Great fathers are in short supply these days, and fatherless households are depressing and family values get out of line.
Only light can cast out darkness, and you have to find out if your husband truly wants to change or not. Old habits die hard, and if it's been with him for such a long time in his life, it may not ever die. But to play devils advocate, sometimes returning evil for evil is the only way.
I had some time out and while out I got a text saying "I know you think I'm lying" no mate I know your lying! He has an app installed now, for as long as I see fit. If he wants forgiveness and trust he needs to earn it. I can't deal with denial when I have proof.
Those apps are pretty neat. though not perfect.
I just know for me personally, if I had a woman who was counting/making me quit, I know I could. but marriage is complicated from what I've seen, what do I know ?
Very complicated but mostly happy if problems like this don't being it down. There are days when I forget and it will be ok. Other days it hits me like a wall :-(
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