Comments on Profile Post by ImStrongAK

  1. ImStrongAK
    ImStrongAK
    My body is demanding a release at this point. If I happen to relapse deliberately, what would happen? I'm indecisive after a very long time!
    Jul 4, 2020
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  2. Ray_of_Sunshine
    Ray_of_Sunshine
    Wow, that's an amazing streak! Good job dude. My two cents on your question though, is there are plenty of outlets to release your pent up sexual energy. It could be through finding a partner or M without porn. I suppose wetdreams happen too.
    Jul 4, 2020
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  3. Chris_Cactusblossom
    Chris_Cactusblossom
    Numbers are a double-edged sword for this reason. It'd set you back a bit on one hand, but it would remind you why you do it on the other. Why not cut out the middle man and just remember why you're doing nofap in the first place?
    Jul 4, 2020
  4. ImStrongAK
    ImStrongAK
    @The_Common_Sinner - Thank you for your valuable suggestions! I wish it was possible to find a partner and M without P is something I think I can't do. Honestly, the last 4 days have been struggling!
    Jul 8, 2020
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  5. Chris_Cactusblossom
    Chris_Cactusblossom
    Old goal: Reach 150 days no PMO. Check.
    New goal: Find partner...
    Jul 8, 2020
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  6. ImStrongAK
    ImStrongAK
    @Chris_Cactusblossom - Bud, for past 4 days that's what I've been trying to do. Trying to cut the middle man. It's so hard. I didn't know I would suffer yet again and that too at the end of 150 FREAKIN' DAYS!
    Jul 8, 2020
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  7. ImStrongAK
    ImStrongAK
    @Chris_Cactusblossom - Chris, I'm a naive Indian. 19. Highly spiritual. Engaging in intercourse before marriage is considered a taboo and a sin here.
    Jul 8, 2020
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  8. Chris_Cactusblossom
    Chris_Cactusblossom
    Well, it's not like there are any tips I can give you - you've already made it to 150 days. Tough break re. marriage - I don't suppose that's something you can fix overnight. But, aren't your parents involved in trying to set you up?
    Jul 8, 2020
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  9. ImStrongAK
    ImStrongAK
    @Chris_Cactusblossom - Lemme give you a brief insight.
    Here, in India, majority of the teens reside with their parents and are taken care of by their parents till they get a job or take up business (either their parents' or launch one). To sum it up, parents take care of us till we start EARNING after graduating.
    Jul 8, 2020
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  10. Chris_Cactusblossom
    Chris_Cactusblossom
    I meant set you up with a wife.
    Jul 8, 2020
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  11. ImStrongAK
    ImStrongAK
    @Chris_Cactusblossom - Mostly parents are not that open to discuss about things that pertains to intercourse. They firmly believe that one should ideally get a degree & start earning first. If one can't sustain himself then how dafuq can one sustain his partner?
    Jul 8, 2020
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  12. ImStrongAK
    ImStrongAK
    @Chris_Cactusblossom - No, not at all. There's Religion. Then there are those "unwanted" relatives who have their say when it comes to marriage. Also, people here hold the perception of being in a monogamous relationship. We don't possess abundance mindset.
    Jul 8, 2020
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  13. ImStrongAK
    ImStrongAK
    @Chris_Cactusblossom - I can't "generalize" it for all. Because when teens join colleges here, they do engage in such activities of finding a partner, engaging in intercourse and keeping the affair a secret from their parents.
    Jul 8, 2020
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  14. Chris_Cactusblossom
    Chris_Cactusblossom
    Well, that puts you between a rock and a hard place, but look at it like this: There are loads of guys on here that would give a lot to be in your situation. You're stuggling now, but that's what youth is for. You haven't thrown away your life, your libido is strong, and you've got your whole life ahead of you...
    Jul 8, 2020
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  15. Chris_Cactusblossom
    Chris_Cactusblossom
    ...Go and do something else you like doing, but just don't PMO. Eventually you will have a wife, or a partner, and you'll have loads of sex and it'll be great. And at that point, you'll be really glad you waited, because if you start PMOing now, that future might not even materialise.

    Get what I'm saying?
    Jul 8, 2020
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  16. ImStrongAK
    ImStrongAK
    @Chris_Cactusblossom - I, on the other hand, am uncertain about what the future holds for me. I desire to stick my morals and values of not engaging in intercourse at least before marriage. But the thing is, I can't be very sure. Time changes everything. Circumstances and PEOPLE.
    Jul 8, 2020
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  17. Chris_Cactusblossom
    Chris_Cactusblossom
    One of the worst things you can do in life is throw away moral values for quick gratification. Take this from someone who did it and now has no life.
    Jul 8, 2020
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  18. Chris_Cactusblossom
    Chris_Cactusblossom
    Stop typing now, take yourself physically away from your device, and don't come back till the urge has died down.
    Jul 8, 2020
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  19. ImStrongAK
    ImStrongAK
    @ImStrongAK - Thank you so much! Means a lot to me! Absolutely, I don't want those emotions to override my intelligence. I definitely am craving for dopamine but now possess the power to say "No!" Thank you very much, once again! ;) <3
    Jul 8, 2020
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  20. Chris_Cactusblossom
    Chris_Cactusblossom
    I'm really, really happy to help, young man. You'll have a great future if you keep this up!
    Jul 8, 2020
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  21. ImStrongAK
    ImStrongAK
    @Chris_Cactusblossom - I'm very apologetic, Chris. I'm feeling shitty for letting you down. I happened to relapse. During this 155 Day Streak, I've battled with these urges & emerged victorious over a hundred times. But this time I stand defeated.
    But I want to say, my journey doesn't end here. I'm sorry again! :(
    Jul 8, 2020
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  22. Chris_Cactusblossom
    Chris_Cactusblossom
    Well, it's your life after all. Maybe I didn't say the right thing. You still reached 150 days, and they say the upward path undulates. Good luck with setting and reaching your next goal.
    Jul 9, 2020
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