Comments on Profile Post by marcpro

  1. स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    This is like the hardest way to overcome this man, waiting until a powerful urge strikes. I last had a behemoth of an urge a couple months ago. The only way I overcame it was having a daily meditation practice in place, so I was able to think clearly and calmly about the irrational thoughts I started having, and just staying in a logical and rational place and let the thoughts pass.
    Sep 9, 2016
  2. स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    I DID NOT TRY TO FIGHT THEM. I just watched them calmly and recognized them for what they were.
    Sep 9, 2016
  3. स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    The real trick is minimizing and eliminating urges before they even arise.
    Sep 9, 2016
  4. स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    You need to train yourself basically to understand the process that leads to temptation in the first place, of course sometimes we may have a sudden impulse out of the blue that catches us off guard and you just gotta deal with it, taking deep breaths helps, and learning to have a dialogue with the addictive thinking when it comes up.
    Sep 9, 2016
  5. स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    Sep 9, 2016
  6. स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    I don't use EquiSync® that's just good info in that article.
    Sep 9, 2016
  7. स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    I made a list the other day of things to do when temptation strikes. I would recommend possibly writing a list of like 10 things you can go do in the heat of the moment. Being prepared seems to be a good idea. Get outside and take deep breaths, tell yourself why you are doing this and connect to some kind of purpose you have going in your life.
    Sep 9, 2016
  8. स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    Don't let the beast lie to you and ruin your life, that's all fapping will do to you man. Just fucking ruin everything.
    Sep 9, 2016
  9. स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    You don't want to be a lonely old man sitting in a dark room with his dick in his hand because he can't connect with a real partner because of all the years he spent alone, masturbating.
    Sep 9, 2016
  10. marcpro
    marcpro
    I went like ok I have to go outside, but I finished in the toilets... thx for the tons advices gotta do a list. I think that even with a partner porn would still get me^^
    Sep 9, 2016
  11. स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    Dude, you make it sound like you're hooked. You have to realize porn is fake, it's just not worth your time. And ya, finding a partner is not a solution to the problem. However if you don't overcome the problem, you will never be capable of being with a real partner in a real relationship.
    Sep 9, 2016
  12. स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    All the advice is already out there man. You just need to realize porn is only going to ruin you. I don't think you've gone low enough yet to want to quit in all honesty. Temptation only strikes when a part of us still wants to watch porn and fap. It is possible to completely change your perceptions of these things and no longer be tempted man.
    Sep 9, 2016
  13. marcpro
    marcpro
    I don't want to test how bad it can get. I often read it on fight the new drug. Where the partner is so much into Porn that he ignores his wife, complains about her all the time. The problem is only him PMOing all the time even with the child.
    Sep 10, 2016
  14. marcpro
    marcpro
    Porn transfers real sexuality into shitty fetiches. Girl are objects with no feelings, everyone is a machine.
    Sep 10, 2016
  15. marcpro
    marcpro
    Like animals and the food industry. They are only something we consume. Mindfulness shows us the true misery. Once they did the scene it's finished. People do it for economic reasons
    Sep 10, 2016
  16. स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    Ya my friend made the comparison to the meat industry.

    My problem was more with erotica than porn.
    Sep 10, 2016
  17. स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    Erotica is essentially porn though. Anything sexualized for stimulation I view as porn.
    Sep 10, 2016
  18. स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    The real work is learning how to stop objectifying and sexualizing women, or men for some people.

    See women as human beings and not creatures of pleasure.

    As for masturbation, it's a touchy subject for some people hehe. It has no value other than draining your lifeforce which would be better spent with a partner IMO.
    Sep 10, 2016
  19. marcpro
    marcpro
    There is certainly a pleasure part it's just that porn overwhelms us with it. Yes everything artificial is porn, but what is it when i see a nice women in the street? I read a post that some people turn their head to avoid fantasizing... I think there are still limits on nofap.
    Sep 10, 2016
  20. स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    That's the problem man, you're still attached to viewing women as giving you pleasure. Of course wanting sex is natural, but a real relationship should NOT be founded upon physical pleasure.

    Dude you are still attached to sexualizing women.
    Sep 13, 2016
  21. स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    No offense bro, it's natural. It's fuckin' wired into our animal natures man. We can rise above it or stay mired in it the rest of our lives.
    Sep 13, 2016
  22. स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    Limits on NoFap hahhaa? Like what, not being able to oogle women in public? Are you fucking kidding me dude? YOU DON'T EVEN UNDERSTAND NOFAP BRO. OOGLING WOMEN IS PART OF THE PROBLEM.
    Sep 13, 2016
  23. marcpro
    marcpro
    The dude was turning his head as soon as he saw a women^^. He wasn't oogling, I fight not to turn when a nice women passes.
    Sep 13, 2016
  24. स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    To each their own brother, to each their own. Wish you the best in your quest man!
    Sep 13, 2016
  25. स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    स्वर्ग Ordinator Toshiro
    At least follow the 3 second rule if you can mate!
    Sep 13, 2016