Comments on Profile Post by Halpherisdusfrey

It’s not about me, but about people who gonna take in and process the information. I fear if they wanna come to find me in real life, well that’s a huge deal, an unnecessary risk.

my Facebook is pretty much used for work in the future... so it’s not fine at all @@

It’s not even the right time, but idk if i post it, the person who need the info may the article reach to, or to the ones who has distorted view?

I reconsider this many times... i both want to raise awareness, but also there’re risks related to me that i cannot control, that’s what i fear.

And more important, i wanna share my own story, that how i can survive all of this, it came from Nofap, nowhere else.

To the people who misunderstood or mistreated me before.. i guess it’s just really hard to just being out there, I don’t know all the risks

So yeah, i still one day post the article on here Nofap site. But on Facebook... i have no idea...*sigh*

Breathe. Hold your head up high, your shoulders back and remember: There is no shame here. You've done well and wish to share your story. If it helps but one person, you've done more than most. So be calm, Frey. Best of luck. :)

@Atticus thank you man, i mean. I just read https://thedailyaztec.com/97795/opinion/sharing-your-personal-story-with-others-can-be-freeing/ , google “consequences of sharing personal story online”

@Atticus so, really appreciate your insight mate. I’ll take that and moderate my story when it’s the right time :)

https://thriveglobal.com/stories/why-you-should-share-your-life-story-publicly/ - wow, this article is really true, like sharing your story though there’s unspoken topics like PMO, ... in life that no one speaks about. Her life view is really true.

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=366684244828726&id=100044614591421

Now that is what I call great. See @Halpherisdusfrey ? While it takes bravery to share your story, it will help someone. You're not alone in this struggle, after all. Thanks for the share @GotCaught

@GotCaught thank you for sharing, that’s powerful message (late rep mate @@)

@Atticus thank you, actually it’s both between sharing the knowledge and awareness, but more inclined to justify my past-self to those who mistreated me. I just throw the article out there not knowing anyone will need, cause they all conceal really good, or I think that they have their own ways to deal with PMO problems that my story about how both my male-

@Atticus cousins rejected my Nofap article (the thread below i post several days ago). So yeah, it’s like screaming in the void. I don’t know, but yeah, the ultimate purpose is justice for my past-self. But i still hope my knowledge and journey help at least one person out there, i hope. It’s been long time more, now it’s not the time, i’ll find the best time after things in uni done.

I wouldn't have done it if I was you , Halph. This is a very controversial thing. And you get burned for posting anything certain people don't like to see. Facebook be like that. Your choice, though. I would keep it all to myself and speak to few and very little amount of people about such topics. It's case sensitive.

@Humble Warrior yeah, maybe after getting done Project, i’m not going to post them @@ i change my mind, and i might be not really ‘a good example” for folks, or it’s too personal, I’m not sure if people gonna consume and understand me or my content... well, I have no idea. But i mean it’s like 50/50.

I'm pretty sure if I post something like that, my parents will be on my ass, my entire family will have questionable opinions about you (and that's REALLY bad, because they family), and plus, provided all my family are Muslims, we know that Porn is bad, nutting is also bad but we do not bring up trash in a good and clean place.

Maybe 1 on 1, but never publish opinions on facebook where most people are getting spied on from.

@Humble Warrior gettimg spied from... yeah that’s what i worried too mate. Anw, thank you for your insight.

Respec+

I don't post Nofap stuff anywhere besides this community. Keeping it top secret (except for 1 video on my Youtube which I constantly keep unlisting/making it private/public depending on my mood lol) - Takes a lot of guts tbh to talk about it openly. sooo yeah, would definitely not recommend posting on Facebook or social media profiles where you're more visible coz it could be unpredictable.

@Snake Diet Ghoul oh. I get you mate :) i dont post my whole explicit story, but i wanna make a word, an end of 4 years in uni, a feeling post about healing and growth while on Nofap :)