I'm going to say this gently as I can because I really do care: I've noticed lately you focus a lot on a number, and in my very personal experience, I usually relapse the closer I get to my goal number, because I rationalise: "what's the point, I reached my goal anyway". What if you thought in terms of like, benefits? For example?
Thank you for that. There are definite benefits. In short, I feel better, stronger when I’m not masturbating - and I’m more productive. I can set higher goals, like six months without orgasm and a year without masturbation.
Ugh. Really struggling! Feel like I might spontaneously O, despite my best efforts. Need to get past this. I will not M today, that much I can be sure.
Tempted to tempt fate: an excellent insight. I've found myself recently trying to remember the negative thing that I was thinking about (that I was 'supposed' to be thinking about) when my mind has moved on. What?
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