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sohardrn
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sohardrn

Fapstronaut, Male, from USA

doing good :) Feb 18, 2024

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Mar 13, 2024
    1. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Day 28, one month is around the corner.
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    2. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      on day 26. certain i will hit day 30.
      1. Kazim.99 and Ank07 like this.
    3. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Bad past 2 weeks, but it’s gotten loads better after adopting some frameworks from Atomic Habits! Ready to embark on a new streak!! Day 2.
    4. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Relapsed the day after my last status update. Had nearly 2 weeks of trying to find a way to make dating apps work, it didn’t workout.
      1. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        Had about 5 relapses in that time.
        Jun 11, 2023
      2. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        Intend to start again. Even though I’ve messed up I haven’t lost it all. 44 days of abstaining followed by a handful of relapses before starting again isn’t the end of the world. Picking myself back up today! End of Day 2.
        Jun 11, 2023
    5. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Haven’t relapsed but yesterday was dangerously close. I’m back to trying to arguing with myself about if Bumble/Hinge should be okay.
      1. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        If someone has strong opinions on that, please message me so I can open dialogue with a real human about it.
        May 29, 2023
      2. Spiritual Immunity
        Spiritual Immunity
        Okay in what sense?
        Jun 13, 2023
    6. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Urge to use dating apps doesn’t go away. I wish I never began.
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      2. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        Part of me believe I’d be fine with it with where I am now. The other part of me thinks or knows how ashamed I’d be if I indulged myself.
        May 25, 2023
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      3. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        I don’t want to be addicted to those things or feel like I need them.
        May 25, 2023
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    7. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      urges are so fucking powerful today, i need a new strategy
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      2. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        Especially after being reminded my studying isn’t that hard, it’s just time-consuming and that made it scary. Overcome the fear and I’ll enjoy the studying.
        May 21, 2023
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      3. roofs
        roofs
        Your studying sounds exactly like my experience with my work right now, if I put in a decent amount of time it's actually fun and not scary anymore
        May 22, 2023
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      4. Khufu
        Khufu
        urges hit me the hardest when doing homework,my method i leave phone at home, i work at the library with my laptop, poeple always there and always looking at my screen when walking by its a natural instinct ,
        May 27, 2023
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    8. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Super horny, not getting anything done, almost downloaded a dating app just now.
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      2. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        @roofs This site, food, and the gym lol
        May 21, 2023
      3. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        I was able to get through it. Back on my laptop, got a plan for the remainder of the day. Need to get into the flow with my work rn and I won't have anything to worry about. Don't ever give up!
        May 21, 2023
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      4. roofs
        roofs
        Sounds pretty good!
        May 21, 2023
    9. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Day 34. If ever feel like you can’t do anything. Close your eyes and ask “what’s my best next move?” Then countdown from 5 and start moving.
    10. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      I’m on day 32. Passed the 1 month mark.
    11. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Going to keep going past day 30. No more goals. I’m not shooting for day 90, to break my record, or 1 year.
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      2. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        I’m following what James Clear said in Atomic Habits. “We don’t rise to the levels of our goals but fall to the levels of our system.”
        May 15, 2023
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      3. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        I’ll keep following the healthy systems I’ve created for myself, adjusting them only for the better.
        May 15, 2023
    12. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Day 29. Nocturnal emission this morning. Don’t even remember any graphic images. Just remember waking up, it happening, and sleeping again.
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      3. Legacy of Lost Soul
        Legacy of Lost Soul
        Nocturnal emission usually stem from the mind..fanstasizing, not being 100% strict. Its good to try to minimize them. There were some deep posts on forum from one chinees guy here. Try to find em.
        May 20, 2023
      4. Legacy of Lost Soul
        Legacy of Lost Soul
        But I agree, dont bash yourself for it, u have good attitude towards that.
        May 20, 2023
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      5. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        Feel a lot better after spending some time today cleaning my room and reorganizing stuff. It’s mot fun but it is so much better after you’ve done it.
        May 20, 2023
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    13. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Day 28. Whenever you’re this close to day 30, all you can think is “unbelievable” “finally” and just so happy and proud of what you’ve done.
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    14. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Day 25. Definitely still in the Flatline. Easy to no PMO, but not easy to get things done.
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    15. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Struggling to get out of bed after 8hrs of sleep. I wakeup after 6hr, realize I need more, back to bed. Wakeup after 9hrs & phone till 10hrs
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      3. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        @{Ananta} Dude I’ve had the most productive day in my life. Even read a bit yesterday and expect to do more tmrw.
        May 12, 2023
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      4. Khufu
        Khufu
        i taught myself to speed read, im able to read more of my books and college work
        May 13, 2023
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      5. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        I try not to speed read. It’s crazy what you can learn and the connections you make with other ideas when you really absorb the material. But when it comes to college work, I understand. Some majors like PreLaw and PreMed will expect a nigh unreasonable amount of reading.
        May 13, 2023
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    16. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Had a trigger. Really want to start up a dating app. I’ll keep the urge at bay. Looking in the past, those apps are like a tasty poison.
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    17. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Day 23. Had a wet dream which has slowed me down. But, closing in on Day 30 in a week, which is pretty dope.
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      2. Khufu
        Khufu
        im rooting for you
        May 9, 2023
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      3. Khufu
        Khufu
        dont forget to eat all your Sashimi.
        May 9, 2023
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    18. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Day 21. Flatline is back in full-force. But if I can willpower through it today and keep up with the things I need to do, I’ll be back.
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      sohardrn
      Day 17. Swamped with exams week. I can get through this though. Won’t be easy, and also I’m asking out a girl I like tomorrow.
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      3. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        She’s with someone else lol. Tbh, my first thought when I was certain was “dammit, you gotta be kidding me” my second thought was “whew” pure relief. I found out before I confessed to her, and I also was uncertain about being in a relationship as a whole.
        May 7, 2023
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      4. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        I’m currently super busy grinding for a CollegeBoard CLEP exam so I can skip a class, and have other passions I want to put more time toward my martial arts training, planning events for my martial arts club, and actually setting aside time for a fun side project I’ve wanted to do for years.
        May 7, 2023
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      5. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        I felt I almost had to ask her out or I’d be betraying myself, I felt like I couldn’t forgo the opportunity or I’d regret it, so I’m kind of happy it’s no longer an active choice I have to make. I can step away from her and focus on my passions for the Summer.
        May 7, 2023
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    20. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      2 weeks. Flatline hitting hard. Not enjoying music, working out, or studying. Need to study. Finals week. At the Gym rn. Sleep @ Midnight.
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    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    USA
    Occupation:
    College Student
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    Preferred Pronouns:
    He / Him / His
    No porn.
    Avoid masturbation.
    Be socially vulnerable.

    -I don’t use porn.
    -I avoid masturbation, but it’s not a relapse, a slip-up to signify I need to make a change or overcome something.
    -I avoid dating apps. It is not healthy for my head, but it is healthy to do the following:
    -I'll ask her out if I feel pulled toward a girl. Either in person if I can get alone, or get her number and ask over the phone. A phone call is better than a text message.

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