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Comments on Profile Post by Abstain_for_gains

  1. Bi-Curious George
    Bi-Curious George
    I agree with 2525. Plus sex addiction isn't something you want to reinforce either. It's an entirely different level of hell. Just mentally swipe left in the idea to go back to Tinder.
    Sep 2, 2017
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  2. Abstain_for_gains
    Abstain_for_gains
    Thanks @2525 and @Bi-Curious George . The urge is just to strong. I will be stronger than my urge and stay on track.
    Sep 2, 2017
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  3. Abstain_for_gains
    Abstain_for_gains
    I was looking at a feed on the internet and it started to look a little bit like porn. I clicked on some pics but realized it might lead me to relapse. So I closed the browser. I can feel the urge and it's really strong.
    Sep 2, 2017
  4. Abstain_for_gains
    Abstain_for_gains
    Assessing myself, I can see that it is loneliness and frustration that is causing me to go back to Tinder and to PM. I am stuck at home watching Netflix and every little scene is reminding me of sex. :(
    Sep 2, 2017
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  5. Abstain_for_gains
    Abstain_for_gains
    @2525 and @Bi-Curious George don't worry. I know my triggers and I will have to focus my attention somewhere else. It's a bit cold for a walk outside but maybe that will help.
    Sep 2, 2017
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  6. Bi-Curious George
    Bi-Curious George
    You're doing a great job noticing your triggers. Yes go for a walk! Anything that removes you from your present environment will help.
    Sep 2, 2017
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  7. Khufu
    Khufu
    im kinda thinking the same thing ,i stay away from "M" an "P" but have sex but i dont know what i feel about causual seeing im not in relationship
    Sep 4, 2017
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  8. Abstain_for_gains
    Abstain_for_gains
    @LostCloud same with me. I am not really in a relationship but I meet up with the same ones, and I relapsed by meeting one. So I think that might not be a good idea.
    Sep 4, 2017
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  9. Khufu
    Khufu
    so what are you thinking, do you think we should stick to NoFap untill we stumble into something long term serious
    Sep 4, 2017
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  10. Abstain_for_gains
    Abstain_for_gains
    Hey @LostCloud I think that is how it should be. I am still in denial about that but thinking about just random hookups, it is more of a game/sport rather than a way of life.
    Sep 5, 2017
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