Comments on Profile Post by IChooseToLive

What happened? What triggered you? What were you feeling before relapse? What could you have done differently? You gotta take this as an opportunity to learn

Learn about your relapse and to try your best not to let the same trap get you again.

No panic! It'll be alright! Besides the initial pull back (chaser effect), you' not really going all the way back, now that you've already broken the spell. No panic; exhale, and return to the ring... in a zen-like "for the long haul" spirit! Peace, brother!

The trigger was girls in work uniform ... My feeling, I think I was bored ... I don't know, I've tried to do 20 pushups and then fall asleep ... Day after that, I was still thinking about it

I can't erase my dirty mind somehow ... I don't know what to do

@Atlanticus what is chaser effect?

Of course you can, but first you gotta believe that you can man, sooner or later you will see a beautiful woman without obsessing about her.

It occurs after the relapse, like aftershocks of an earthquake.

I think you're right, I'm not seeing a woman as a human, but an object ... I have to have better mindset, believe that we are all human ... Thanks for the reminder ...

It's good you acknowledge that, now do something about that :D