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Comments on Profile Post by Vulkan

  1. Ready to be healthy
    Ready to be healthy
    Don't be to mad at yourself. It takes time to learn your triggers and avoid them! We have all been there- just put it behind you, don't binge and move on- tomorrow is a new day :)
    Jan 8, 2018
  2. Vulkan
    Vulkan
    Thanks for caring. This relapse was really strange, I didn´t even touch my penis, but massaged my ass and was shooting my load out of the flaccid penis, never had this before. Maybe my libido is just too strong and I am a hopeless case. I try not to touch me at all now :-/
    Jan 8, 2018
  3. Ready to be healthy
    Ready to be healthy
    Yeah it's best to stay away from any parts of the body that can be used to stimulate sexually. For men the G spot is inside the ass- so massaging it is not a good idea :P If you are ejaculating while flaccid- then I think a long period of abstaining would be good for you!
    Jan 8, 2018
  4. Vulkan
    Vulkan
    Did not even put a finger in there, the pressure near the penis was enough. And then I have trouble getting off with a real women, porn really warped me.
    Jan 8, 2018
  5. Vulkan
    Vulkan
    I have K9 and installed tinywebfilter additionally, you can filter keywords with it, hope this helps me not to get triggered by erotic stories.
    Jan 8, 2018
  6. Ready to be healthy
    Ready to be healthy
    Yes porn is poison. I had trouble maintaining an erection with my boyfriend due to porn- that was why I gave it up. Avoid touching your groin and ass and hopefully your web blockers will help- though you need to find other ways of combating urges also-avoid triggers by implementing healthy habits.
    Jan 8, 2018
  7. Vulkan
    Vulkan
    I also had ED but managed to get it up better after a small streak already. If I just realized years before that porn is so dangerous, I fear I end up being a warped perv who never finds love. I have to mobilize every bit of willpower now to make it - I fear that if I relapse too often, it will become more and more difficult.
    Jan 8, 2018
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    Deleted Account
    Jan 8, 2018
  9. Vulkan
    Vulkan
    I will :-) Just have to figure out how to not touch myself, what triggers are, how to avoid. Or just chili powder on hands...
    Jan 8, 2018
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  10. Deleted Account
    Deleted Account
    It's a long process, but you will get there. There are no easy solutions unfortunately. Just lots of willpower, trying (and failing), but if you want it enough, and I know you do, you will get there :). We believe in you!
    Jan 8, 2018
  11. Vulkan
    Vulkan
    Thanks man, I am someone who stands up when he falls.
    Jan 8, 2018
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  12. Deleted Account
    Deleted Account
    That right there means you have already come a long way. Use that and learn from your relapses :)
    Jan 8, 2018