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8 pages about whether a grown man should tell the truth. Always entertaining...
You may misunderstand me. I don’t intend to brand anyone as “confused”, but I do see lots of evidence here and in other threads, of a double...
I don't know how to direct people over there, but I hope all the SOs who have stayed with their addicted partners through sometimes YEARS of...
I don’t know how long I’ll do it, but it’s so nice to be writing here again! It feels as if I’m clearing things out of my head or something. I...
I agree and wish there weren’t, but support for these behaviors saturates our culture. For example, in my last post I recounted the incident with...
So, I thought I'd do a little update on how my ex is doing now. I actually think he’s doing better. I think the spitting incident and my reaction...
Well, here I am again! Since stopping in a couple of weeks ago, things are just popping into my head kind of randomly. It’s okay – it’s my journal...
How wonderful to hear from you! Thanks so much for posting! And I truly appreciate your thoughts on forgiveness. "The offense must be over." That...
Thanks for the kind words. I think my sense of humor has saved me from despair many times. I’ve also been thinking about this line – “ You also...
It was strange to come back here and post last week after so long. After I did it, I had the feeling that the journal felt “unfinished” somehow....
Thanks for your kind words. Wonderful, coming from someone who has given so much here.
Hello again, Tim and other well-wishers! When I stopped writing here last fall, it was a pretty clean break. I have popped in to lurk a half...
So I have come to the end of one part of my journey. I still have a lot of recovery work to do in order to overcome the effects my husband’s SA...
Your failure to consider that what’s good for the gander might have been good for the goose is absolutely adorable.
Thanks - thinking...thinking...thinking
For the last week, this hypothetical brought to us by @RUNDMC on another thread has been crawling around in my brain (it’s a scary place). There...
Free to good home: Giant pile of porn addiction, recovery and “understanding betrayal trauma” books. Like new - only opened once, in order to skim...
Hi there, S&L! Finally get back to you. This is interesting and I know it applies to my case, as well. If I look back and am honest, I can track...
Good thought. Part of the reason this has come up is that he feels offended that the kids communicate often with me but are polite and cool with...
We are still recovering from all the recent "kid time". It has brought up a lot of feelings in my husband and as a result, he has had a pretty...
