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Feeling nothing and empty. I want to have faith and trust but every time I let myself feel some improvement my SO's actions make me reel them back...

So my SO invites me out and at the end of it all I wind up paying for dinner. I think I am being taken advantage of now. I don't feel that I am...

Sure but I learned from it and moved on and didn't fall into the same behavior. We are all different, I just get tired of hearing the excuse...

So when I am ready to forgive and move on I find out something else that my SO has done. Now an acquaintance told me that my SO told him that we...

What does this have to do with my story? Sounds like an excellent excuse to continue a poor behavior/ choice.

Unbelievable how there is such garbage out there and that is so more attractive to people that reality.

I am unhappy and just exiting in my current situation. I am sad, conflicted and angry because I am stuck!

It may be the friends that she may have a problem with. There are a few of my SO friends that get him in trouble, literally. So yes it is a...

So it happened again SO went out and got drunk, although the promise of no drinking has been made several times, and was furious and angry. Woke...

yes, over 20 years, yes and yes. I guess I have blame in this because lack of follow through with consequences. I get the whole apology and I...

Good for you for putting you and your kids first.

This sucks very much especially when you know something brought us together so long ago and it feels that one has grown whole the other is lacking...

It's easy to say that when looking in the mirror but what about being the mirror. Not so easy. Haven't given up when the SO is insinuating that...

So when is it to far gone that recovery is non existent? I ask myself if I have reached that path in the road.

It is a hard road for sure. My SO made the choice to PMO and even after I caught him several times and said how disappointed I was and hurt by...

So true. I have read many books on if I should stay or go and when I did a deep self reflection without the filters and the not wanting to hurt...

Frustration and anger make me see red. Why do I stay in such an unhappy relationship? Do things really change?

Tough shit to deal with. I read your letters and see some of my own trials and tribulations in them. It just seems like we do all the changing and...