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Welcome back, @GhostWriter . LOL

This is a great resource for questions for your PA: https://www.makemyburdenlight.com/2016/07/questions-to-ask.html?m=1

I read it. The hypocrisy is astounding. I refuse to respond. I have zero tolerance for abusive, selfish, entitled men (or women for that...

Whether you steal intimacy from your wife by giving it to another woman or yourself by masturbation, betrayal is betrayal no matter how you try to...

You might be sober but you are not in recovery. Your brain is still in addict mode and attempting to seek the dopamine hit from 'new' and...

You have to decide for yourself what is a slip, reset, relapse, etc. Look at your motivations and what drives you to do certain things. My...

I don't know that the trust will ever be repaired to 100%.

My husband is a sex addict in recovery, he would not put himself in that position due to his addiction. Different scenario altogether. You are...

This is exactly what happened to us. We did soft mode for a few months, believing it was enough. He had given up a lot of things but because he...

So she was friends with a guy that likes her. Is she not allowed to have male friends?

Porn addiction falls under thr "umbrella" of sex addiction. A porn addiction is a form ifnsex addiction and the terms are often used interchangeably.

I had to know everything too. EVERYTHING. It nearly did me in, but I dug and dug and dug. There are things I know that he has no idea I know...

I don't lock or block or check anything in regards to my husband and his addiction anymore. He is an adult and it is 100% his responsibility to...

This sounds to me like he is a dry drunk. He is sober but he is not in recovery. He has stopped the actions, but he has not stopped the...

If you notice the ones further in their recovery are the ones much less likely to do this. The ones still active in their addiction or very early...

Wow. Keep deluding yourself.

This is so true. When my husband first started recovery, he began to self harm because he didn't know what to do with all the feelings he suddenly...

There is a difference between being sober and being in recovery. Being sober simply means he's not acting out. He's white knuckling it. Being...

Nope, not saying her cheating was okay by any means. I'm just pointing out the hypocrisy that he feels betrayed when, in fact, he was betraying...